What would you do?

If a girl said you were awesome, made her laugh alot and got along well. Then some days you didn't talk but others you got more than friend vibe...

I'm wondering cause yea...I have heard from people the girl of my dreams may like me..and I want to ask her to prom..but I don't want to look dumb if she doesnt like me at all.

any ideas?

 

The best thing to do I believe it just to be straight forward...

Ask her to the prom. It's not going to kill you, and if she does not like you like that, and shes a true friend. Then nothing will change..

It's better to just ask and find out, then not to and beat yourself up about it later..

Besides, in my perspective. We only live one life. So, why not " Just do it "

I mean seriously.. Too many people in this generation give up on doing things, and become lazy and such. Justbecause of what they think they want and everything.. When in all reality later down the road.. Their questioning theirselfs and wondering why they did not do those things and stuff..

So, I believe just do it. What0ever it may be. I don't want to be the one to look back and wish I did.. I want to be the one to look back and be glad I done it.

 

Yeah with Tenguage, you need to be straight forward with her, dont be scared to get turned down, you could miss out on alot of things if you are

 

Just do what you feel is right. People can give you tips, but in the end it is up to you to make the decision on what you want. As TG said, it's your life.

 

Just tell her straight out bro. It is better then waiting and then asking her to the prom when she has a date, am I right?

 

yea you guys are right, no harm in asking..im not one of those guys who exspect more than a dnace ect ect, im ok with just friend or more.

thanks all, im going to ask her this friday i hope

 

dont be a pussy show your feelings. lol. see i was straightforward now u can do it =p

 

when you see her in the halls, bend her over the water fountain and just go at it. trust me, she'll go to prom with you.

 

Let us know how it goes. Be quick though, or someone else might ask her first!

 

Give me her AIM/MSN and I'll ask her for you.

 

ask in private; worst she could do is say no or she already has a date

 

Ask her friend if she likes you? Or just ask her flat out. She'll probably say yes, if not just because she doesn't want to be rude.

 

If your going to ask her to prom do it in like a reallly cute way or something. Girls are like crazy for that. Buy like a goldfish and put it in a plasticbag with water and when you ask her give her the fish and be like your the only fish in the sea for me and ask her to prom or something like that. Or you can be real good and put flowers and chocolates in her car. And when she sees the flowers and chocolates call her cell phone and ask her to prom but the kicker is you'll be right behind her when you ask her. Trust me it works!

 

Recently the same thing happen to me, or similar

But I asked the girl to prom before hand, she said yes

Things were good, then I asked if she liked me, and got a no.

Later on, a few days later we were at a party, we hadn't been drinking, and she was all over me... the whole night.. so it seems she likes me sometimes, then others not at all...

Honestly, I wouldn't bother she is probably just playing games

 

prom doesnt always have to be a lovie bf gf thing friends go all the time its just to have a good time, besides gf and bf prom nites are usually full of drama

 

yea..idk girls bring so much drama. I have no problem getting girls but its the whole hey lets go out or hey lets go blah blah..and yea ive had a beautiful gf before in my opinion...but she was a slut who wouldnt go slow for me since i like treating girls with respect..this girl is different so im nervous because she a really prep and im like the funny party guy and idk if she likes me for me..ha well im asking friday either way..im letting her actions this week guide me though and if she looks back in class at me like she does and laughs when im not even talking to her i think ill get a yes..

 

Lol. you sum'ed up what i was going to say. >_<

 

In my opinion, you should tell her. You only get one chance

 

Nothing ventured nothing gained.

 

damn! we have the same problem hhaha
I just wanna ask her out though, not to prom.