Brotherly Help

Alright so I have a younger brother who always relies me on me for advice and his girl issues and he came to me with a situation over the holidays about a girl he likes, so here's the scenario basically:

He's 17, a junior in high school, gets good grades, has a lot of friends, he's a likable dude. During his 8th grade to freshman year he dated a girl for a year and a half and they broke up (she was his first everything including losing his virginity). So after their break up he has had "things" with girls over the past few years but now he really likes this girl the only issue is she's a senior and is graduating this year.

He came to me and said that he doesn't know what to do, as he really likes the girl and she really likes him but the he's positive them, as an item, won't last when she leaves to college as he doesn't want to restrain her from her college experiences and she probably doesn't want to be tied down in college.

So the help I need here is what should I tell him? I was stuck in a similar situation and the situation I was in and he is in would probably all end the same way.... it wouldn't work.

But I need help on how he should handle the case, should he ween off on talking to her? Should he just let things go as it is and just live in the moment?

I told him it's best to end it ASAP as you know where the path goes but I'm sure there are other ways in which he won't get hurt as bad from this situation.

 

If he doesn't even know what the girl wants, how can he begin to figure out what he should do? They need to talk abou it first before he starts getting all worried. Once she and he have both established what they want, then they can start to decide what to do.