Underage Relationship

I'm wondering if it is worth having a relationship with a family friend.

We're both 14 and have been "going out" for around 4 months now, parents do not know atm.

She lives quite close to me and we see each other tons; is it worth having the relationship now and probably breaking up in the long run, or having a go once we're free of parents and like 16-17?

No I'm not having sex.

 

Follow your heart, if its meant to be, it shall be... if not then not.

 

^^ This is true. If it is meant to be why go through the trouble of breaking up and coming back at it several years later?

 

Sex and bounce. No.

But really if you do like her and feel its right go with it.

 

Follow your heart.

 

Nobody can decide for you, but I say go for it. If you realize you made a mistake, you'll learn from it, life goes on.

 

stop being a little pussy and asking internet people. Are you going to be posting on sythe for all your relationship problems? just do what you think is right.

 

Just do it, why worry?

She makes you happy, keep her close, end of story.

 

JUst keep it going, you know, for experience in the long run

 

QUOTEforTRUTH.
I agree with Legit.

 

Sometimes people want opinions in life dickfuck, if you dont, then thats ur life.
He is asking us as he knows he can get some decent answers from us, a wide community. Asking a question does not make someone a "little pussy". He's 14 and would like some opinions maybe of people who have been through this before.

OT: I also agree with Imbrue, whatever you do though... do not miss the opportunity to make something great happen.

 

You might not feel the same when you're 16-17.

Enjoy what you have now. Why is it a problem if your parents know, and what will change in 2 years?

 

I actually say DO NOT follow your heart, follow your intellect, you're too young to devote such a strong feeling on one person.
Enjoy your relationship (don't stress over it,) and when shit hits the fan, learn from your mistakes and bounce.
Don't let a relationship slow you down on such a crucial part of your life, ages of 13-18 can shape who you are for the coming ages.

td;lr
Enjoy what you've got, enjoy someones presence, never stress over it.

 

Yeah fuck it! I would, lifes too short to wait around.

 

This ^ ^

 

Sure go for it. If you end up breaking up a few years later when your free of your parents. Just try and get her again.

 

i think you and her should continue going out and see how it works, it would be worth it, if you like her why not date her?

 

Why wouldn't your parents want you to date her?

 

The situation as you describe it could be good. It could develop in to a long relationship. Even if you break up, which you probably will in a few years, but ultimately you will probably get back together.

 

Follow your instinct. Don't screw up your friendship if you end up having a relation ship. Best friends make good dates cause if you are visually attracted to her and you like her insides ( because you are best friends) it will probably be alright.