Quick girl help, please..

So, a girl I like, I met her 2 years ago and I've liked her ever since, but starting this year my best friend and her started dating. They broke up momentarily because he was flirting with other girls whilst he was dating her, and I tried to convince her that he did it all the time, which he did, and she was going to say whatever to the whole thing, but he apologized and was super sincere. A few more things like this happened, but they didn't break up. But, 4 weeks ago, we were using laptops in English class, and I asked to use my friends because mine wasn't loading and I wanted to play games(lol). Well I went to google to search for flash games and it redirected me to his gmail which was logged in, and I seen in his inbox from a girl in our grade sending him pictures of herself naked, so I went into "sent" and he was sending pictures of himself to her.

I really really like this girl, and I think she likes me by the way she acts. But, this guy is my best friend and I'd be lost without him. He's also the reason me and her aren't together right now, though. If I tell her, I'd lose him as my best friend, and there's a possibility she wouldn't believe me and then I'd lose them both. If I don't tell her, I'm going to feel like a tool because I knew and I know what he's doing.

Please help me guys..

 

Bros before hoes. Honestly, he's your best friend. Don't fuck that up.

 

I know, but she trusts him and thinks he can't do anything wrong. This girl is like my second best friend as well, and she's helped me with my social issues, my mental ones, and basically anything you can think of. I feel like a bad friend not telling her when she loves him so much and he's doing this behind her back.

 

Happens to me all the time my best friend since i was about 5 does it often. Some of the girls actually like me but they are with my friend so it could never work. Best thing to do in my opinion is to wash it from your mind don't betray a friend. Girls come and go if she wants to be blind to the fact let her wander with no eyes.

 

Talk to him.. Say what happened. Tell him you won't say anything to her. Maybe try to guilt trip him into telling her himself about this other girl..

BUT... This girl is just a teenage crush for both of you, it's very unlikely for either one of you to marry and have kids with this girl (I'm not saying it's impossible, just real unlikely.) where-as your best friend will probabl be your best friend for a long time. So don't screw things up with him for the sake of a teenage crush.

 

Friends are for life but girlfriends usuallt don't so don't tell anything

 

Yeah, I'd suppose your still young dont worry. She isn't your wife to be and pussy comes a a dime a dozen. However good freinds dont your time will come with her if it was ment to be so.

 

Don't snitch, and she might not even like you like that. So if you do it, and it fails, you're doubly fucked.

 

If my best mate had a problem with who I was dating i'd tell them to deal with it in their own time.

He's obviously moved on if he's being a manwhore and sending people naked pics, so don't wait around and tell her how you feel.

 

I completely understand you.
I would probably do nothing as I wouldn't dare to tell but, I think the best would be that you tell the girl what is going on, but ask her to understand your situation and that you dont' want to loose your best friend.. The girl should trust you and won't tell it to the boy, at least she will know what she is up to.

 

If it was me I'd probably bring it up subtly with my Bestie. Just cause you like the girl doesn't mean you should make a move on her if it means losing your friend. Honestly, keep the friend, but if you REALLY like her then just go for it.

 

BROS BEFORE HOES MAN!!! Girl will almost never work out for a longtime

and even if it does, you wont be happy. and youll end up wanting to go back to your friend later

So who cares hes a little player?

this is 90% chance youll fuck things up with both of them. Maybe bring it up with your homie, but when its just you and him.

WHATEVER YOU DO DO NOT TELL THE GIRL. She will either never know, and you can get with her someday, OR she'll find out on her own and be like "wtf perv ass playa" and then you tell her your sorry and get all kiss ass...

 

I still say go for the girl. Her feelings will be broken later if u don't. The friend is doing it HIMSELF and it is on his own risk.

 

This to be honest, if he's really a great friend I wouldn't pull a dick move on him.

 

Girls come and go, simply put.

 

Quoted for truth.

She is just a girl. Your best friend means much more than just a girl. He is being unfaithful, she has caught him before, she is still with him - it's her problem not yours. If you care about this girl, just tell him to stop fucking around. Also dont 'think' she likes you, KNOW she likes you before you make a move. That way you know the outcome already

Goodluck.

 

Your friend is a jackass. I would tell him the fuck off about it and if he gives you crap, then just tell the girl, and tell him to fuck off.

 

Talk to your friend, Don't lose him though, Best friends are hard to come by.

 

Get him slammed for kiddie porn. Then take his girl. If she gives you a shot, dont blow it. Let her know you wanna talk to her, but dont being annoying. If she fucks you over, then move on. Theres always more girls. Anything else on females MSN me, I think im the guy to talk when it comes to 16-18 year old girls. 19+ forget it, not into that shit. [email protected].