Am i Physically attractive?

Yes you are.

 

I had the same issues years ago when I was still in school. Not quite to the same extreme, but I did. It comes down to what everyone else is saying and what you already know - You're just not outgoing enough about your feelings. That in mind, don't go crazy and smother someone or be too outgoing.

Fact is that it's rare for a female to ask a dude out. I've had it happen once EVER. Every other time, I went through the most discomfort ever when asking. I still do. But it's something you get more and more used to as you go.

 

17 years old...Thanks for the adice guys. It helps me alot.

 

you look fine, above average tbh

 

Right now, you just look "ok."

the hairstyle and clothes can change how a man looks

 

No homo, yes.
You're better then me + a good look.
If I can get laid and go to parties and such, you DEFINITELY can, you're a good looking kid, nohomo

 

Confidence helps a lot. Just work slowly, talking to girls isn't always easy. If your afraid of them thinking your stupid or something, it always helps to change perspectives. If a girl walked up to you just to talk to you, how would you respond? Some girls might be flattered by it, you never know. Also look for something to talk about before hand? Do they have a class with you, play the same sport as you, listen to the same type of music? I'm not saying stalk them to find out, but it always helps to know a little about them. One day you might just ask them out spur of the moment, happened to me twice, actually. Try getting their number also, its a lot easier to talk in a text then it is face to face. Or you can add them on a social network if you both have one, like MySpace or Facebook.

 

just go out and dont be afraid to ask them out ect xD

 

By my standards, as a guy, your going in the right direction. I can't say for myself what girls mostly look for because everyones different, you know? I like the style your going with because it's similar to mine, straight hair, a bit longer and just a relaxed look. The best confidence boost you will get from yourself is really just BEING yourself.

I want to give you some serious advice from my perspective of how I see things. As a guy we all think about asking girls out from the age 15-18 (give or take a year) because we feel obligated to fit in with everyone else and finally get our hands on a girl and experience what everyone talks about. We mainly want to ask a girl out because we find it as intriguing and something very new which we feel we want to experiment with.

My beliefs consist of multiple observations that I've personally made over time and just taking the time to actually think before I act. A girl wants someone who doesn't just jump right on top of them and start asking them out because you've seen them 3 times, never talked, and you KNOW she has a nice body feature. What you want to do before you do anything, make a conversation. Actually get to know the person before you start to talk more. If you can't find a common interest and you don't really talk much, then its not meant to be. However, if you can start a random conversation, then that conversation turns into a bigger conversation, and talking a little every day, not by force but out of pure attractiveness, then thats when you know you have something good.

In order to tell how someones a good catch or not, is whether you're out on the prowl, or you just happened to find each other and randomly talking. To be honest, running around looking for a reason trying to find that hot girl, never works out in the long run. If you want something for the long run, consider taking it slow, getting to know each other, and letting her fall into your arms without even lifting your hand or hers. Good relationships just naturally go well, and are easy to manage. Bad relationships are just full of problems, depression and more.

It's all about experimentation really and how comfortable you feel around others. Let yourself open up a little bit in a new environment and be willing to listen to whatever comes to you. It'll reward you in the long run, I can promise that.

I hope this helps, feel free to contact me if you ever want any advice Take care and good luck.

 

I see nothing about your style That would make me pause and say to myself what a creative individual. Although that's me just being honest. There's nothing physically wrong with the way you look, but you could try a bit harder to brighten your style. You look like an average teenager that would get lost in a crowd and that's a good thing in a way but it's not the best either.

Try styling your hair with some gel or get a hair cut, maybe even colored contacts and some modern clothes. I don't know what you wear on a daily basis so I'm not going to judge you on that area. Remember that most girls are attracted to confidence and that's confidence not cockiness because there's a huge difference between those two and I can help you on that later if you'd like.

When you look in the mirror what do you see right away that you like about your face and what do you see that you don't?

 

Give it a try there is nothing bad to happen, if you get refused just say okay and walk away. After a year try an other girl maybe?

(I'm about same as you)

 

You look fine. Don't worry so much about how you look, because most of the time girls fall for the guys with all of the confidence. Try just going out and getting over your shyness. I know it is easier said then done, but girls don't always just fall for the guys with the best looks. They like you for how you are, not just because you may look "hot". Hope this helps.

 

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