I've got a friend who's my age who i've known for at-least a decade now, I've always found him to be a very reliable and smart guy and he was into the same stuff i was so naturally, we became friends. I went abroad for college and we kept in touch playing things like LoL over voice-chat so we always remained close, he even came to visit me twice while studying abroad in summer, fun times I had a girlfriend throughout college and right after graduation she left me for some other guy, i was heartbroken. A month later my dad gets too violent with the family and my mom tells him it's time to get a divorce. I let my friend know about these events and how i was having a hard time. Heartbroken, a little depressed and having just made some money with some investments. I decided that i'd use some of that money to rent an airbnb at the beach in my home country and try to relax and meditate. I had a nice entire place for myself so i told my buddy to reach. One night we came back really drunk from a nightclub and my friend thought i passed out on the bed or something but he basically tried to reach down my pants and grab my salchicha. Everything suddenly clicked as my friend had always had absolutely no game with girls. So I'm like 'wtf u doing.' and he burst into tears and told me he was bi. I consoled him and told him he should consider coming out. Feeling betrayed by love, family and friends, i felt like i couldn't trust him or really anyone for while, so i just focused mostly on my career and on meditating the personal and family issues i had at hand. This led me to push him a bit away for about two years. I ended up returning back to my home country after graduation. My friend found himself a job and moved cities and is now a 4 hours drive away so i see him around every two weeks. I felt like i had to talk about it with him again to set things clear because i still want us to be friends. About a month i had this talk with him while drunk at a party, i told him how much i valued our friendship and asked him about his sexual orientation. He arrogantly said that being bi was better than straight because he had more room of opportunity. Ever since, he is being again more and more affectionate and attentive towards me to the point it makes me uncomfortable (redirects group attention towards me, offers to pay for my things exclusively when in a group, and he is being more touchy too) Yesterday, like a group of 7-8 friends and I all decided to drop a tab of lsd and go out later in the night. One of my friends had invited a gay guy and his boyfriend to join the plan. These guys were extremely funny and got along with everyone just fine. One of the gay guys turned out to be the owner of a very expensive club and invited us and offered us basically unlimited alcohol and a nice table. We all thought it'd be jokes to go there while being high on acid and put everyone out of their comfort zones. So we did. I went there without any broads unfortunately so i got hit on a couple time, it was one of the weirdest experiences in my life lol. We constantly joked about the setting all night with my friends and my friend was acting weird and needy throughout the night but i thought it was just cause he was tripping on the drugs too much. We ultimately changed bars and called it a night, my friend ordered an Uber and dropped me off at my place and suggested we'd watch the new Toy Story movie the next day with his brother who is also a friend of mine by now, i was like "ok" and went to sleep, it was 5 am. My mom wakes me up the next day letting me know that my friend is on my moms couch saying we were going to the movie. It was only 11 am I was kinda left with no choice i wasn't even feeling well, had enough rest or any breakfast yet but he offered to pay for my breakfast. We went, and it was the kind of theatre where the seats are reclinable and kinda made to be shared by couples cause they are kind of joined together in sets of two. Of course my bud sits next to me and tries to pull some weird fucking moves again. I didn't say anything because this time they were not as forced but i can feel he's escalating again. I'm really starting to wonder what to do, I'll talk to him again about this probably next time i see him and point out the exact behavior that's making me uncomfortable. What to do Sythe? I value this guy's friendship a lot and he constantly provides me with good advice. However, i don't know if this guy might have a crush on me and is someone that i need to push away again for while and give him some space, maybe even stop communication all-together.