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My sister and I are teens; 2 years apart. I feel I need to let this out.
To sum it up, my sister had been doing bad stuff behind everyone's back recently. She was cursing tremendously, talking about boys and love, and using social media, despite the strong discouragements from my parents. When I first witnessed my sister cursing in person, it was about 3 months ago. From that day, I spoke no words to her, and ignored her until now. During those months, the anger inside of me built up, after investigating her messages, social media, and diary entries that contained much taboo that my family did not promote. But the story did not end here.
While investigating, I picked up the words "depression" and "cutting". It was no secret that she was trying to kill herself. When I found out, I was in pure shock. The exposure of a teen girl talking about killing herself when she is so young...I was mindblown. It seemed like a dream, that someone in my family would be doing such a thing.
I was much confused. Should I confront her about the bad things she has been doing, or about her cutting? This question was on my mind, and I simply could not think of what to do. That is until today..
I decided I had to do something now or never. Before she got home from school, I decided to research about my problem. Perhaps punishment for her actions, would stop her from doing those things again. Google helped me decide to do something to her that would traumatize her and prevent further misdeed.
It may seem a little wrong, but I decided to wait until my sister was changing, and then rush in, confront her, and then spank her on her naked behind. What I thought was that the experience of being nude in front of someone, and being hit by a person of a different gender, would traumatize her a little, and prevent further mishap. I got everything ready, and then she came home.
I pretended to be cleaning up, waiting for her to change so I could bust in. After a long 10 minutes I barged in, with my sister wearing a tank-top, and an underwear. I told her I needed to talk, but she kept yelling for me to get out. She finally grabbed a towel, and I got her to sit down. We talked for the next thirty minutes, mostly me confronting her about knowing the trouble she was doing. After I thought nothing was to come out of it, as she was being ignorant and was so embarrassed by being semi-nude, that she wasn't paying attention, I decided to bring up the cutting deed. I was kind of surprised about what happened next.
She started to cry, as soon as the sentence ended. I asked her why, what, how, when, who, and she replied through her tears. She showed me 4 clean cuts on her wrists, that I never saw before. She pleaded that those were her only cuts, but I did not believe that. I checked her whole body, other than her underwear area, and her chest area, which I tried to check as I had heard girls do it there a lot, but she would not budge. She wouldn't stop crying, so I did something I had never done before. I hugged her and kissed her numerous times. It felt so weird, that now I cannot describe it. When she was calm, we ended the talk with me giving the talk about "how would Mom and Dad feel if you died", credits go to cheesy T.V. shows. She cried once again, and I found myself caressing her again. The weird experience ended there.
I am confused if I did the right thing now. I am currently wiping my lips every few seconds, as the whole brotherly love thing- I'm not a fan of. Should I have spanked her and embarrassed her instead? Were my actions too much? Should I have done anything differently?
Did I not make myself clear on her misdeeds?
Please do share your opinions. I need guidance on what to do next. I made myself clear to her that I would not let anyone know about her, as long as she kept her nose clear from now on. If she didn't, I hinted that I would do the thing I had initially planned. Am I right?
To sum it up, my sister had been doing bad stuff behind everyone's back recently. She was cursing tremendously, talking about boys and love, and using social media, despite the strong discouragements from my parents. When I first witnessed my sister cursing in person, it was about 3 months ago. From that day, I spoke no words to her, and ignored her until now. During those months, the anger inside of me built up, after investigating her messages, social media, and diary entries that contained much taboo that my family did not promote. But the story did not end here.
While investigating, I picked up the words "depression" and "cutting". It was no secret that she was trying to kill herself. When I found out, I was in pure shock. The exposure of a teen girl talking about killing herself when she is so young...I was mindblown. It seemed like a dream, that someone in my family would be doing such a thing.
I was much confused. Should I confront her about the bad things she has been doing, or about her cutting? This question was on my mind, and I simply could not think of what to do. That is until today..
I decided I had to do something now or never. Before she got home from school, I decided to research about my problem. Perhaps punishment for her actions, would stop her from doing those things again. Google helped me decide to do something to her that would traumatize her and prevent further misdeed.
It may seem a little wrong, but I decided to wait until my sister was changing, and then rush in, confront her, and then spank her on her naked behind. What I thought was that the experience of being nude in front of someone, and being hit by a person of a different gender, would traumatize her a little, and prevent further mishap. I got everything ready, and then she came home.
I pretended to be cleaning up, waiting for her to change so I could bust in. After a long 10 minutes I barged in, with my sister wearing a tank-top, and an underwear. I told her I needed to talk, but she kept yelling for me to get out. She finally grabbed a towel, and I got her to sit down. We talked for the next thirty minutes, mostly me confronting her about knowing the trouble she was doing. After I thought nothing was to come out of it, as she was being ignorant and was so embarrassed by being semi-nude, that she wasn't paying attention, I decided to bring up the cutting deed. I was kind of surprised about what happened next.
She started to cry, as soon as the sentence ended. I asked her why, what, how, when, who, and she replied through her tears. She showed me 4 clean cuts on her wrists, that I never saw before. She pleaded that those were her only cuts, but I did not believe that. I checked her whole body, other than her underwear area, and her chest area, which I tried to check as I had heard girls do it there a lot, but she would not budge. She wouldn't stop crying, so I did something I had never done before. I hugged her and kissed her numerous times. It felt so weird, that now I cannot describe it. When she was calm, we ended the talk with me giving the talk about "how would Mom and Dad feel if you died", credits go to cheesy T.V. shows. She cried once again, and I found myself caressing her again. The weird experience ended there.
I am confused if I did the right thing now. I am currently wiping my lips every few seconds, as the whole brotherly love thing- I'm not a fan of. Should I have spanked her and embarrassed her instead? Were my actions too much? Should I have done anything differently?
Did I not make myself clear on her misdeeds?
Please do share your opinions. I need guidance on what to do next. I made myself clear to her that I would not let anyone know about her, as long as she kept her nose clear from now on. If she didn't, I hinted that I would do the thing I had initially planned. Am I right?
