My type of girl..I can never find.

So, i'm like an American Eagle/plain white-T kind of guy. But..the kind of girl i'm most interested in are the scene girls and redheads. Just to clarify..

Scene: Emo/Gothic normally stereotyped with those names; typically have snakebites/lip rings, black hair, dyed hair, or stuff like that. Really nice bodies, normally shy...I just think they're absolutely beautiful.

Redheads: Self explanatory..I once heard that only like 4% of people on Earth have red hair..maybe I like it for the uniqueness?

Anyway, I just never seem to come in contact with any of them. All the redheads I know have boyfriends, and the scene girls either arn't into me, have horrible personalities, etc. There's just always a problem, I find the girl i'm physically attracted to; but then something goes wrong. I go to stores like Hot Topic and stuff like that, I've talked to every girl that fits the description at my school..I dunno. I'm not trying to wait to move out of the state before I find a girl like this I can have a lasting relationship with.

Ideas?

Maybe I need to change myself? Look elsewhere?

I also try to avoid adding random girls on facebook..while I don't mind when girls do it to me, i'm scared it's creeperish in their eyes.

 

I have no idea to be honest, I mean, I wear Aeropostale, AE, and stuff.. I'm personally attracted to Brunettes with medium-sized breasts, and beautiful eyes. If they all have bad personalities and/or not attracted to you, I personally, have no advice.

 

You might need to change your girl if nothing is working out....I Tend to bee into brown hair/brunette haired girls with beautiful eyes...Some girls eyes are amazing...Ones that bring their facial features out and their hair...And i also look for a good body too...so...Just some advice...

 

I can't "Change my girl" it's just how I naturally feel, always have and up to this day I still do. I expect it to always be that way. Do I need to change myself?

 

Obviously you need to change your style to something resembling scene. If you look like they do I guarantee they will be more into you but idk it definetly won't help with the redheads. If you can't commit to changing your style, then meet girls that you aren't normally attracted to that are cute and if you hit it off you will definetly change your mind about other types of girls. Think about your future, do you honestly picture yourself married to a scene girl lol. Imagine a scene mother hahahha. And as for redheads their so rare that finding one thats right for you is probably damn near impossible. You WILL have to change in the future so you might as well start now. All guys have people they are more attracted to but when your actually talking to a pretty girl that doesn't fit what you normally want your preferences all go out the window. So learn to be more open and if you have any other questions im here to help.

 

Good advice, i've already straightened my hair and bought some screamo band t-shirts (yes, i actually like them i'm not posing) i just never thought i looked good in them ,but the straightened hair goes nicely with it I think. I don't plan on getting any piercings/tats , and my parents wouldn't let my dye my hair but it's basically black anyway.

Only time will tell...


and I guess you agree about the 4% thing?

 

In all honestly its probably less than 4% but if your serious don't let that stop you. I know alot of scene people and changing the way you look will HELP a lot but finding a girl thats semi outgoing and scene will prove to be a challenge. To give yourself a better chance I recomend gauges at least/ or die your hair to look more scene. But straighting your hair was a really good idea. Before going all the way through with this I think you should try getting close a normal cute girl just to be sure. kthxbai lol jk

 

Start out low, then get to your desired type, girls are like stairs, you gotta wonder up to get to the level you want, then stay with it. Make sure they can clean, cook, and do laundry good.

 

I didn't know clothing brands decided who you are/is attracted to. Perhaps you could stop being close-minded and realize that girls with snake bites aren't the only ones with "Nice bodies" and "Absolutely beautiful".

My suggestion to you is to not really look anywhere else, but to stop letting trends control your life and look for someone who is more than just dark clothes and chains.

 

You're just going through a phaze, you will be attracted to different chicks in no time.

 

Tbh.. Just talk to everyone.. Girls, guys, whatever they look like/are into. And you'll start to get to know the ones you'd like to get to know quickly.

You could end up liking someone who you wouldn't expect to like at first.

Also.. Don't go looking for girlfriends because it makes you short sighted.. If you think you only want a certain type of girl, then you'll only look for a certain type and more than likely not find them.

Seriously, just talk to everyone and anyone.

 

Most scene girls aren't really that dark/mysterious/shy, it is hard to try to find the right kind of girl you like. They usually just pop up out of the blue, and the whole scene thing is a phase, so it's not like it will last forever. Lol I've been there and back a whole bunch of times.

I would say just wait for an opportunity to come by, and I totally dig the scene chicks too, so I feel ya bro.

 

if i were in your shoes, id rather go out with a preppy girl with a great personality then try getting any scene girls that dont have a good personality. just because your more attracted to one type doesnt mean your unattracted to all the rest.

 

What the hell, there are actual emo girls in your school? Son of a Bitch.
Personally, don't try to classify girls that you should like, as in only dating those types, stay open for anyone, you might be surprised.

 

Lol , more like four emo girls. And i'm friends with all of them..not getting any further.

 

Go to a show.

 

Girls are naturally nice I would suggest confessing to the one that you think you have the best chance of a yes. Just say you like her and think you should go out so you can get to know her better. You may think they might not like you but I imagine emo girls would be very hard to read.

 

That's actually a really good idea..but i'm sort of scared to take chances. If she turns me down then it'd always be a bit awkward, cuz she'd know I have feelings for her but she doesn't return them.

 

Well I have to ask, do you not find any girls who aren't scene/redheads attractive at all? what about someone like Megan Fox? if you can't find a girl like that attractive then something is wrong.

Personally I dislike scene girls and prefer normal brunette/blonde girls by far, red heads are hot but nothing special.

 

Hey, reading your post I can't tell if its a matter of you like one particular scene girl, in which case if you do you should go up to her and have a chat ^.^, or just like that look in general?