I love a girl who likes another guy (or does she?)

I love a girl who seemingly likes another guy. Here are some general facts:

1. I only see her once a week, but I've seen here once a week for the past 6 months.
2. I have no idea why I'm falling for her because we've only spoken like 5-6 times, ever and those were short, insignificant conversations.
3. I think she might like another boy, I personally have no idea if they like each other or are good friends as they are both still single.

I honestly have no idea what to do, I don't even know if she knows i exist. Help me please.

 

Yes, move on. Cut your losses she is not the one, In the end you will be the one who will suffer.

 

Easier said than done, I have never loved/liked a girl this much in my life. (serious) Teenage hormones? maybe :S

 

May I ask how old you are and why you see her only once a week?

 

you've spoken to her twice. it's likely its sexual tension. once you've kissed her, you might get over her.

She has a whole life you dont know about, she might have 5 other boys lined up

 

@Necromancer24. 15, i see her once a week because she doesn't go to my school, on Fridays we have a social gathering where i was invited by some friends.
Yeah, I've spoken to her twice, is it sexual tension? probably not why? It's like the world has flipped. I have no idea tbh. And trust me she's single, but she might like another boy.

 

You've go something called oneitis otherwise known as one it is meaning you have your heart set on one girl and that't it, you need the link below check it out, i give advice around there sometimes http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php

 

I really don't think this relationship will work. Her beauty alone will not make it last. Do you like her attitude? Do you know if she likes another boy? Those are but a few of the questions that must be answered.

 

Straight up, it's because you want what you can't have, and if you get her it won't be as good as getting a girl that was straight up into you first, my advice, either fuck and ditch her, or just be friends n keep hunting for new girls

 

Forget about her man, she obviously doesn't want you..your wasting your time.

 

Don't get sucked into your pitiful emotions, you can't trust anything your feeling in your teenage years.

 

Step 1: Talk to her

 

Well, i have no idea as i have not talked to her much :S

 

Your in love with the idea of her.. you can't be in love with someone if you barely talk to them. You will get over her.

 

? I'm in love with the idea of her? what's that mean? Yea true i guess i will get over her, but i don't know when or how. I have never felt so strongly toward a girl before.

 

It means that your in love with her looks basically. It sounds like you don't really know what her personality is like; you just assume it's amazing because of the way she looks.

 

try and spent more time with her, she'll see that u care about her.
than she migth change her mind thinking ur pretty ''cute'' or something
and atleast just tell her, or give her compliments so she'll like u more.

 

First of all:
You aren't in love. Having talked to someone about 4-5 times won't make you fall in love. You probably just feel puppy love or sexual connection (meaning you are too young (15), and you see a girl and think she is the perfect one).
Second of all:
At the ages 14,15,16,17 unless you find a very strong relationship, you will fall in someone every other week.

I suggest you talk to her, see what's up. You have nothing to lose: better to know the truth then have feelings for one and not know her feelings.

 

I know exactly what you mean bro. Sometimes you just see that girl and the feeling is indescribable. Honestly I don't know what to tell you about your situation but if it is right the time will come.

 

Keep talking to her. See if you continue to feel the way you do, or if the feeling changes. Does this "love" you feel seem to grow, or does it seem to shrink?? Do you enjoy your conversations, or do you actually find yourself quite bored when talking to her? What exactly am I feeling? These are things you need to ask yourself. And if you find you don't feel the way you thought you did, it's not like there's anything wrong with hanging out, is there?

However if you do feel the way you've mentioned above, at some point you're going to need to dig deep down and find the courage to ask her out.