Need Advice

Hey man, take it cool. Since she won't talk to you online, try face-to-face. Convince her that it is your baby too, and you want to be there for both of them. Honestly, I'm not sure how the HELL she got the idea to end it with you. Maybe it's just her like uber PMSing. not sure but hope you like my advice. gl :/

 

Dang u Gohan, i lagged and said what you just did but a little nicer :/

 

THIS^^^ You've got nothing to worry about as far as her picking up another guy. A 15 year old with a baby = no boyfriends for the rest of high school, trust me.

 

Well yeah i know it wouldn't do much in the future, but im about to finish the 10th grade, im gonna do my 11th grade year through homeschooling over my summer break and go back into public school next year as a senior, then attend the community college where i live. I know she is going through alot with the hormones and stuff during pregnancy, but she is so stubburn and doesn't understand that our relationship is more than something she could let go of just because i hung out with one of my friends..

 

you still haven't answered my question..do your parents know?
if not in 3 months when she gives birth and you bring that child to your house your parents will be pissed...might want to keep that into consideration...

 

Tommorow I have a class with her, I'll try to talk with her about things then, I want to be with her and have things work out I just don't know how to get it through to her that were actually having a child and our relationship isn't just a game. She breaks up with me quite often, majority of the time just because she randomly gets in a pissy mood about something that has nothing to do with me.

 

M I K E- yes my parents do know i told them the day i found out she was pregnant. my mom was hard on me about it in the beginning, but she's starting to accept the fact that it's happened and theres no going back and changing it.

 

Okay, i know it's difficult, and a kid is a large responsibility. The main thing is not the girl anymore, it's her decision to be with you or not, you can't do anything about it. I want you to focus on that kid, he's now the main importance of this relationship. Taking your mind off of her won't be easy untill you find someone else (It'll only be easy if you find someone else when you are mature enough to accept that you must date others.) I've had no father my whole life, I've never seen a picture, I get a knifty check every month though. Coming from a person who's always wanted a father figure, and to meet their father, BE THERE FOR THE KID! I'm sorry that there isn't much you can do with the girl, except try and work things out, make her relise that she's having a KID, and that you're fit to be that father parent with her.

 

You will never be able to get over her because it's your child. You are going to have to tell her that you're going to be a part of your childs life, and she can't just ignore you. You're going to need to sort everything out related to your child.

 

My advice, stop worrying about her and focus on the child. She has the right to not have a relationship with you but she can't restrict you from having a relationship with your kid.

Don't look desperate in trying to get her back, that's what she wants. Instead, show her how mature you really are by taking care of the child and being there for it (Regardless of whether or not you two are together). Maybe after she grows up a bit (Reality/maturity are going to hit like bricks after she has the child), she'll realize that she needs you in her life as well as the child's.

As everyone else said, Dudes in high-school aren't interested in pregnant chicks. Granite, we do hit on them but we don't want a relationship with them. Lol. It's the truth, though.

Life is too short to cry and moan over a girl, your life is now the kid. Be a man and don't let her get you down.

(If you need to talk some more, you can PM me)

 

I suggest keeping it a secret from your Parents at first, then tell them later on when things smoothen out a little. I can't believe your 15 and you have a girl pregnant already.. If she is too dumb to see that she can't look after a child at her child, then may the Lord ask someone to slap some sense into that girl.