Should I accept payments through PayPal Family & Friends?

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Should I accept payments through PayPal Family & Friends?
  1. Unread #1 - Mar 20, 2023 at 11:26 AM
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    Should I accept payments through PayPal Family & Friends?

    I've heard you can't chargeback, but apparently still some way if you pay directly through your card?
     
  3. Unread #2 - Mar 20, 2023 at 1:20 PM
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    Should I accept payments through PayPal Family & Friends?

    Never accept paypal unless its from a trusted customer. It is always possible to chargeback paypal payments.
     
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  7. Unread #4 - Mar 24, 2023 at 10:51 AM
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    Should I accept payments through PayPal Family & Friends?

    It's certainly a very common misconception.

    I will state a bit further than "yes it's able to be recovered" though, and as mentioned above yes it is. It is very common for users to pay via debit/credit card, in this event if they feel that they want to have "happy time" if you will, they just ring their bank and claim it as unauthorised.

    By law, your bank has to look into said issues. Being that it's online currency/in game items etc, they class it as entangled goods which basically leaves you with no actual coverage. This is of course fraud, but people still do it despite breaking fraudulent claimed laws. The same applies with goods and service, but of course is much easier to get back.

    And then it takes you to the whole "balance is safe" criteria. The same as above, it can still be recovered, it's not AS EASY to recover, but literally just takes a phonecall to paypal themselves to say oh I didn't notice the transaction or I believe someone else may have had access to my account and so.
     
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    Should I accept payments through PayPal Family & Friends?

    Thanks for the detailed reply, its helpful.
    So in short, don't use PayPal
     
  11. Unread #6 - Mar 24, 2023 at 2:49 PM
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    Should I accept payments through PayPal Family & Friends?

    Pretty much yes.

    My first trades consisted of PayPal for the longest time ever, then I started getting very picky with who I traded with which typically lost me a lot of sales in the process. Naturally understandable, but like many I wanted to avoid the risks, at the time I started doing it I was playing RIFT (another MMO, was very popular at the time) and I would sell GP to buy in game items on there, 2/3 of my first trades and disputes I won after all 3 of them tried to recover luckily. Since then I tried UKBT, got my bank account closed because although it was seen as "not able to be recovered" a year later, someone recovered their funds and got my bank account closed along with a lot of money lost due to not letting me cash it out.

    Crypto is the do all and be all still, unless you're in another country other than where I am and you're fine with taking other forms like revult/zelle etc. I think it does vary on the given person though, some people are happy to use PayPal still at say a higher fee etc (such as major gold sites) and I do still occasionally use it with my customers if I have known them for an extremely long time.
     
  13. Unread #7 - Apr 15, 2023 at 12:37 AM
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    Should I accept payments through PayPal Family & Friends?

    Imagine payments going through a network of middlemen, one of them being banks, the credit card, paypal and you, the merchant. At any point the transaction could be charged back, if the customer contacts paypal they can ask paypal to reverse the transaction, if they contact the credit card provider, they can reverse the transaction. Paypal being downstream in the chain will see that their income was reversed, and they will do what's in their power to avoid losing money.

    It's typical for disputes to fail in favour of the customer with these types of payments, as they are geared towards commerces, which have an assymmetric power dynamic.

    So F&F transactions can be charged back by reversing the cc transaction. But as mentioned above, they can probably also be charged back with paypal. However the user interface for doing so will not include options relevant to commerce. The most important consequence of misusing F&F is that accounts may be locked due to 'suspicious activity'.

    There's two basic types of accounts on paypal, people and businesses. People can still charge for services.

    As a merchant using Paypal or any high-fee payment processor, you need to have margins high enough to handle the risk of any type of chargebacks. While the system Paypal is based on was designed for purchases of tangible assets, support for digital goods was also added. However transactions for digital currency like RS gold or bitcoin don't fall neatly into any of those types of transactions, and they do not benefit from the customer friendly dispute system.

    Consider a chargeback in the case of the purchase of a physical good:

    Either the merchant didn't send the object, or they sent it and the customer wasn't happy. In the second case the customer can return the object, and the merchant can return the money. In the first case, the use of couriers can act as a middleman to ensure whether an object was sent, that and a reputation system will swiftly find scammers of physical objects.

    For the cases of digital goods like software or subscriptions:
    These services have very low marginal costs, and huge margins. A chargeback won't hurt the merchant so they are the default option:

    For the case of digital delivery of digital assets by a third party:
    Unlike Jagex selling membership or gold to a customer, each sale has a very high cost, and the margin is very small. So a chargeback doesn't mean the same.

    For this reason, most merchants in this space simply do not use paypal. And opt for USDT, BTC, or RS gold itself.

    That said, there are situations where the margin of a transaction would be high enough, the risk of the transaction is low, or the price is raised for PP transactions to account for these factors. In these cases, making a transaction as F&F might be a viable strategy to reduce the risk of a chargeback, and plant a deterrent to frivolous chargebacks, as the scammer would have to compromise the reputation of either their PayPal account or their Credit card provider. In other words, they may be able to scam one or two merchants, but repeated use of this method would soon end with a locked paypal account or a heavily reduced credit card limit.

    In the case of credit cards, they are linked to real names, and credit scores with ever expanding impact. To compromise ones credit card score for some stupid videogame would be very retarded. So if you get scammed with a F&F transaction, you can at least be assured that the scammer will probably get the worst of it. Kind of a mutually assured destruction scenario.
     
  15. Unread #8 - Apr 27, 2023 at 7:01 PM
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    Should I accept payments through PayPal Family & Friends?

    delete your paypal
     
  17. Unread #9 - May 2, 2023 at 10:16 AM
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    Should I accept payments through PayPal Family & Friends?

    no. Anytime I've used paypal the buyer charges back or finds some other excuse as to why it wont work.
     
  19. Unread #10 - May 15, 2023 at 8:54 AM
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    Should I accept payments through PayPal Family & Friends?

    As other users have mentioned, do not use their service, it is dog shit awful.
     
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    Should I accept payments through PayPal Family & Friends?

    Pretty sure if you log on a Paypal account from a separate IP address from what your normally on you can easily chargeback.
     
  23. Unread #12 - Jun 7, 2023 at 5:51 AM
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    Should I accept payments through PayPal Family & Friends?

    I think it also depends on what you sell. Chargebacks appear to be most common from GP sales. For services the percentage is already much lower. For RS accounts it's super low, but would also depend on what you sell. An account with a high bank value would have a higher chance to be targeted by a chargebacker.

    I've personally sold GP through PayPal roughly 300 times with only 2 chargebacks.
    I've sold maybe 150-200 services via PayPal and at least 500 accounts, no chargebacks there.
    That doesn't mean the percentage in those markets is 0. There could be other reasons why people don't attempt to charge me back.


    However, do keep in mind that what the people above said is true and PayPal is a shit company. They offer very poor support and can close your account for any reason they seem fit. When they freeze your account, you will lose access to all your funds for at least half a year as well.
    If you choose to use it, try to withdraw/move your funds frequently and never keep too much on it.
     
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    Should I accept payments through PayPal Family & Friends?

    Go ahead if you want your paypal to get limited. They consider it as fees evasion. Also it doesnt protect you from unauthorised claim which is used in 99% of chargebacks.
     
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    Should I accept payments through PayPal Family & Friends?

    Sadly, the days of using PayPal are long gone.

    It will get shut down once they clock what you're doing.

    Some sellers/sites use paypal but set up dodgy systems to try and trick paypal into thinking you are selling physical goods or wordpress services etc. Being vague about what is being sold or what the transactions are for only works in the short term. This never works long term and Paypal do indeed check and most importantly they start asking questions.

    As Zuzel mentions above, Paypal will soon start frowning when they see you're evading fees

    Lastly, as soon as a fraudster starts using lots of stolen paypal accounts or fraudulent accounts to try to target you, then Paypal are gonna step in.

    There is literally no benefit in having Paypal now. The risks outweigh the only perk of simply offering it as a payment option.

    If your customers want to use Paypal then it would be more worth your time setting up a tutorial for them on how to use another payment option rather than taking the risks with Paypal
     
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    Should I accept payments through PayPal Family & Friends?

    I see a lot of vendors still using paypal as a payment method but whats more common now adays is crypto as the fees are way way way lower. As many users have stated above paypal is just too fee intensive & too big of a hassle to deal with.
     
  31. Unread #16 - Sep 16, 2023 at 9:59 AM
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    We take PayPal without issues.
    Yes, trx fees are trough the roof, but it works just fine
     
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    Should I accept payments through PayPal Family & Friends?

    Are you not afraid of chargebacks at all? I hear these are very common especially with stolen credit cards.
     
  35. Unread #18 - Oct 4, 2023 at 1:56 PM
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    Should I accept payments through PayPal Family & Friends?

    It's about knowing who pays you & taking appropriate precautions.

    A stolen CC also screws you on a f&f payment
     
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    I see so you basically only accept paypal from trusted users? And require id verification
     
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    Should I accept payments through PayPal Family & Friends?

    I'm saying take measures you deem appropriate and don't risk more than you can afford to lose
     
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