Laws of Love and Attraction.

MY question is can you honestly be in love with someone who has a great personality and is a great overall person when they really arn't good looking at all. Visa versa (They're beautiful but are basically airheads)

Answer honestly with whatever insight you can bring to this discussion.

 

Frankly I can't have a meaningful relationship with someone if they aren't appealing. Mostly because when you want people to connect, YOU USUALLY SHOULDN'T HAVE A LOT OF FAT IN THE WAY!
A few people will probably say I'm a prick for saying that but ask yourself, do you wanna be fucking/fucked by a really ugly person?
And I love junk in a trunk.
But to be honest is their something a lil' inbetweenish?

 

Ahh the days when looks were the only thing that mattered.

Now as I do admit I won't be porking any 500 pound heffers in my day, if I can have a normal conversation with someone, if I just find it fun to be around them, I could very easily fall in love with a person.

 

I require good looks and a brain. Not just big boobs, and a hollow head.

 

psh sure you can look at bill gates and his wife, he could have bought a hot one but psh well yeah look at her

 

Fat always comes up in these kinda of discussions so I have made a scenario. You're a rich lawyer, you have it all but you meet this disgusting looking and morbidly obese woman who you find to be one of the most intelligant and interesting person. Could you ever love here or would she only stay a friend at best?

 

I don't know,

But I think you just ''fall'' in love, this could be on the ugliest person on the world.

 

Impossible. For me, at least.

No looks=no relationship. Simple as.

 

and what your still in 8th grade?

looks isn't everything but im not gonna fall in love with someone who doesn't take care of themselves

 

11th.

Im in 8th grade because I dont want to go out with someone who doesn't look good? Nice.

 

but your saying if this girl is the most amazing person ever , but isn't hot your not gonna go out with her?

 

Sometimes you just can. You naturally love her somehow, and you just can't resist.

 

If they looked like, say, Rosie O Donald, yeah, I wouldnt go out with her.

 

isn't she lesbian?

topic: Pretty much all i've actually heard is weight is the issue with going out with someone...

 

yeah
if i am seriously attracted to a girl who is not-so-attractive, i get over it
as long as they are NOT overweight

but usually, those relationships don't last long

so yeah, i have to be physically AND emotionally attracted to somebody for it to work

 

Yes. I'd like to hear more about the personality side of love.

 

Well since I will be a virgin till I'm 40~ looks don't matter to me, but I would prefer to have a girl that isn't hugely obese because even I can stay just barely overweight, but it wouldn't be the deciding factor over a relationship.