Chick wants to go out, but I don't.

Hey guys, I'm in a bit of a "struggle" I guess. This chick that I work with wants to go to the movies, but I honestly don't. I don't have no interest in her, so why the hell would I waste my time? Everyone was in front of me when she asked me so I didn't want to diss her.

I know she likes me, and she even texted me basically saying the other people that I work with are saying that I like her. (Wtf, no!? Being friendly doesn't mean I like you.) I told her I like her as a friend and this chick still doesn't get it!
What should I do guys. This is what I had in mind. Go to movies, watch the shit I want to watch, give her a hug, see ya! Go home.

What if she tries to come onto me or some other stuff, wat da hell shud i d0?

EDIT: So I will tell you guys how it went - it went good! Watched a movie, paid (like a gentlemen), and walked her to her car and she basically said thanks and that it was fun. Then I said yeah it was, and me and her made our way, phew! Thanks for tips guys.

 

Just try to follow the flow first.
See what happens after you go do the movies and etc.

If it gets worse and you hate it, just be polite and straightforward to her.

 

Since just by being friendly she assumes that you are into her, going to the movies with her and hugging her will definitely send the wrong message. The best way is just to be honest and put it out on the table. If she dismisses it, just persevere.

 

Yes, do not offer any hugs or those actions that can lead her to thinking you are into her.

 

You must really be one of those super nice Guys. Seems like an easy hookup to me.

 

Don't hug her. Sends the wrong message. Go to the movies with her. After that, just say that you had a nice time, but you're just not into her. Say you want to still be friends, but be firm that nothing beyond that is possible.

 

Sounds like a girl I know.. One of my friends is in that situation, except the girl is a proper weirdo.

Anyway..
Be straight up with here if you can. Simply say "I only like you as a friend, we can still go to the pictures, but it won't lead into anything else." it sucks to let someone down like that, but it will hurt her more if you lead her into thinking you like her.

 

Just tell her, it'd be worse to keep her hopes up when you're not interested, trust me. Go with her but just tell her you're just there as a friend, as you didn't want to make her feel bad in front of everyone else..

 

Be honest and don't lead her on. Imagine how you would feel if you went to the movies with a girl you liked, didn't do anything and then she hugged you on the way out. Your personal ego would brush it off and figure that she was just prude, not that she didn't like you.

Gotta look at it that way

 

Tell her the truth mate.

 

Don't let her hopes go high, just be polite and let her know early

 

Sweet thanks for the info guys, I told her today in private that "If we could just go as friends." She said "Sure if you want." So I was assuming she wanted something more but I let her know straight up. Thanks and I will update main thread next week when I head out.

 

it can't be a chick if she isn't attractive. lol i rarely see guys struggling only girls

 

Just tell her straight up that you do not want to to out, BUT BUT BUT, in a very polite way, so she can understand.

There is a huge difference between being a total dick about it, and doing it the proper way.

I'v been there done that and it sucks, and it's awkward, but it's best to do it sooner than later before the whole thing gets dramatized.

 

Updated first post - a mod can close, thanks.