Issue With Going First, Someone chose to report me

So recently Desir0 reported me because he had accusations that I was trying to scam him because I chose to not go first. The instant he said he wanted to use a middleman, I explained to him that I did not want to go first.

My reasoning behind this is because, even if he twists the words up, because I never stated that a Middleman scammed me. I stated about 2 incidents that have occurred to me.

First one being, using a middle man, the person I sent this item to said I did not truthfully send the item, just a blank package, so the middleman never gave me the money because I never directly sent me a package. Therefore I never received any money.

I offered Desir0 if the MM would pay the shipping on his end, I would directly send the package to the MM, so the MM will send it to him, I would agree to that.

It is not that I have a problem using a MM, I have a problem sending an item directly to someone who didn't post any vouches, and expects me to trust him and his word.




That is an image of me stating I would be willing to send it to a Middleman.

A second incident happened with Fantasy Factory. We used a Middleman which was Ebay/Paypal. I sold him a PC to him, payed the shipping of $40 on my charge, and when he received it, there was an issue with the PC apparently. When I received it back, and I refunded the money, when it was shipped back the computer was badly damaged. I had a full warranty on the PC so if any issues came up, he could just send it back to the post office and get anything repaired and I stated this to him too. Anyways the item was broken when he sent it back, however when it was sent back, it voided the warranty and I could not salvage most of the computer parts because they were damaged.


I guess the reason I'm posting this in here is because I want to know, am I wrong for not wanting to send him the package directly? Willing to send it to a middleman, but not directly to the buyer.

 

You can't be TWC'd or banned for saying you won't go first. As long as you didn't refuse a middleman, which as far as I can see you didn't, then you're not in any way acting suspiciously.

 

You accepted a middleman as stated in the pictures, i am in no way an expert on this as i'm 23, Female and i don't even trade ; I wouldn't say this is TWC
Worthy at all, Desir0 has been banned for ban evading anyway

 

Thank you very much.

 

No problem, if you have any issues after this please PM me ; I can help you further that way and we can go more in depth about further issues like this , glad to be of help!

 

You have nothing to worry about and he's banned now anyway