Another GIRL problem.

[The debater]

Well, i don't know how to start this, but i guess il just jump right into it.

Well, i've been dating a girl for about 2 weeks now. She's awesome, pretty, not too skinny/not fat. Caring and shy.

BUT (There's always a but)

I've been a smoker for a LONG time. She want's me to quit, what should i say to this?

Second of all, im reallyy cheesy with her, is that a bad thing? I'm known for my "tough" personality, but im always nice, kind, and complementing when it comes to her.

Well i've been on and off with this girl alot, so she told me she loved me and i did too, and i mean it.

There's this feeling inside me though, this kind of guilt, i feel like she deserve's better? Idk, im not sure about this.

Well, we were talking on the phone today and she just CUT it off, like alright, im sleepy, bye. She' never does that.

Help.

The debater.

 

I don't know what you could say to the stop smoking part, but you could just be considerate and try not smoking around her I guess.
Being cheesy ain't a bad thing, 2 weeks in a relationship you might just be in that Honeymoon-Phase, it makes everyone a little gay.. Even tough guys.

As for the phone call.. she actually might have been very sleepy and couldn't hang onto the phone anymore =P Or maybe it's her time of the month?

Just sleep on it, see how it goes tomorrow! It's only a phone call I wouldn't worry too much

 

[Annex]

You seem young, as far as her asking you to quit smoking, I wouldn't do it unless you actually were getting serious with her or you want to of your own free will (I doubt you really are after 2 weeks).

Secondly being "cheesy" around her is fine if that's the way you want to act around her than do it. She probably doesn't care either way.

Lastly she probably fell asleep cause she was tired or her phone signal gave out, nothing too big to worry about.

 

[Lilly]

You seem young, as far as her asking you to quit smoking, I wouldn't do it unless you actually were getting serious with her or you want to of your own free will (I doubt you really are after 2 weeks)..

Generally, 99.99% of the time i wouldn't disagree with Annex because he honestly has a gift for helping people, however in this case i must disagree with one of his statements.

Maybe she wants you to quit smoking because she cares about you and doesn't want anything to happen to you.

If you care about her you should care about her well being and smoking around her isn't caring about her health. She sounds like she just doesn't want anything to happen to you (getting cancer, etc).

 

[The debater]

For the most part, i know she is just caring for me. But it is so hard to quit.

We talkedd it out and are perfectly fine now. This can be closed now

Thank you,

Chosen one.
Annex
Lily,

Bless.