This Girl

Theres this girl I've liked for a long time now but we haven't really spoken much probably due to the fact she's shy ans quite mostly. I finish college for exams in a week and was wondering whether I should just ask her out.

Any help would be greatly appreciated.

 

This one's tricky because of the time you have left. In my opinion you should just ask her out if you have the confidence, better that than never knowing if it could've got somewhere. If you want to start talking to her do it over Facebook or texts or ask her for help in class or something.

Good luck my man!

 

Thanks for your help, James. Probably will just ask her out, nothing to lose really.

 

Exactly, if she says yes, then I wish you a happy relationship, If she says no, then you'll move on as you won't see much if any of her and you'll probably forget the whole thing before too long.

Good luck!

 

Definitely ask her out on a date, take her somewhere when you can talk, the movie theater would be a horrible option because you can't really talk, so skip that for the first date.
Maybe you should invite her over to have lunch with you, take her somewhere not so expensive and where you both like, you have nothing to lose asking her out on a date, but don't ask her to be your girlfriend just like that, because it most likely won't work, you need to get to know each other, you say you haven't really talked to her much, so you probably don't know if you still like her or not, so a date for now would be the best option.

Also if she says no, don't feel bad and don't let her know that you're down because of that, just say "Alright maybe next time!" and just keep on walking with a smile on your face

You need to be confident at the time you ask her, otherwise you'll seem way too shy and she won't feel comfortable :/ Also let her know that you like her for something else, don't just stay a friend, you need to man up and tell her how you feel, anyway I hope this helped in any way and good luck

 

Thanks a lot for your tips, Fresh Cigar. Very helpful and I don't think I've seen such good tips in a while. Thanks and i'll let you know how it goes.

 

If you have liked her for a long time mate, then go for it! You have nothing to lose at this point, and if she is a shy person than there is a good chance she feels the same way but is much too shy to ask you out. You might be surprised what will happen when you take the initiative and ask her out

If you DON'T ask her out, you will likely regret it down the road when you think back on it and realize you will never know what she might have said.

Good luck bro!

 

"If you don't ask, the answer is always no." Go for it, man.

 

Thanks Zerkerfist and Wulfspade, I'm going to go for it tomorrow. Thanks for your help.

 

Dude how'd it go!? I'm curious!