I can't get off

Well me and my girlfriend have great sex and I always give her orgasms. she's beautiful and sexy and great in bed, but I simply CANNOT get off whatsoever. if i'm by myself i can but when i'm with her i can't for some reason, it makes no sense.

 

when me and my gf do same thing over and over again for months it gets boring and i find it hard to sometime's "get off" but she bring's little otufit's to dress up in and we alway's trying new stuff role play in the outfit's is good like i like corset's with her boob's spilling out doe's it for me every time. Try somethign new or while ur doing her think in ur head like u do when ur wanking to get over

 

Has she ever been able to get you off?

 

^^ maybe ur just gay.

i doont mean this in a mocking way

if a girl cant get you off chances are your gay.

 

Completely untrue. If he was gay, he would know, he would be attracted to men, not woman (unless he was bi). Just because he is having trouble with sex, does not mean he is gay, at all.

I don't know what to tell you really, although Burnleys idea could work. Try something new, experiment. Maybe you are just bored of the same thing and you don't yet realise it.

 

Try mixing things up in the bedroom. Partake in more exotic sexual positions.

Talk to her during sexual acts, communication is healthy in sexual relationships.

If you have any fantasies, ask her to play them out for you.

Also, it may sound strange, if you are a smoker, go a day or two without a smoke and see if that helps.

 

I cant really get of inless my girl is talking dirty maybe try that, and she has to be loud... theres so much more then just inserting penis into vagina. maybe try something like a cock viberator you can wear while engageing in intercourse with her.

 

This may sound really weird - but try eating before you have sex. Also, are you using any sort of protection? Do you take any prescribed or unprescribed drugs? Usually things like that affect you.

Just try eating/drinking before you have sex (maybe like 30 minutes before) and tell me the results. It might help.

 

Mix it up in the bedroom, find things that help you, certain positions, toys, sexual fantasies etc?

Also are you using any pills or on any medication, as some may have this effect on you?

 

gtfo off my thread bro i'm not gay.

I take 1mg of klonopin 3 times a day.

 

Are you bi-pokar? (klonopin) or is it for anxiety?

 

I have tourette's syndrome, OCD, severe anxiety disorder, and bi-polar disorder. I take klonopin, lamictal, and abilify.

 

This is a pretty big longshot, but maybe ask your doctor if those are keeping your from orgasming.

 

By saying you can't "get off" do you mean you can't sperm? If so, isn't this a good thing unless you want babies?

 

No.... getting off is the best part....

A lot of the time I can't finish unless I take the condom off. Maybe this is your problem

 

Lol, screw condoms pull and pray bro... or give her the morning after pill.

 

Fucking lol'd.

 

side-effects of klonopin

Common

* Drowsiness[24]
* Interference with cognitive and motor performance
* Irritability and aggression[25]
* Psychomotor agitation[26]
* Lack of motivation[27]
* Loss of libido
* Impaired motor function
o Impaired coordination
o Impaired balance
o Dizziness
* Cognitive impairments[28]
o Hallucinations[29]
o Short-term memory loss[30]
o Anterograde amnesia (common with higher doses)[31]


i looked it up on the internet in 2 seconds.
jesus, when will people learn that all drugs have side effects.

ppl think" oh i take this drug to make me better, they wouldnt give me a drug that could have odd side effects"

for gods sake, before you take any medication research what it is.

a relative of mine became suicidal because her doctor said to her
"were going to try giving you a new medication. it will help with depression."

wikipedia is your friend

 

we don't use rubbers.

 

if your a smoker dont smoke for like a week straight...then have sex with her. it will probably the best sex you have ever had