Blowjobs don't get me hard..?

Does this happen to anybody else? It's just something that doesn't get me hard. I don't understand why.

 

It doesn't sexually attract you, You can't force yourself to go hard if you dont like it.

 

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Have you heard of a gay person who doesn't like blow jobs? Are you mentally instable?

That has nothing to do with the thread.



Don't worry bout it dude I don't them that good either old fashion sex does it for me.

 

I kind of laughed a bit when I first read this.

Umm, try lube?

 

Lol I guess you might like other things I for one love BJs XD

 

Simple.. you don't like blowjobs. I don't get hard when a girl simply tries giving me a handjob, because it's not something I like all that much. Just because it's stimulating doesn't mean it's sexually attractive. I don't know about for everyone else, but if I'm not sexually attracted to what's going on, I definitely won't get hard. Good example would be I could fuck a girl up the ass no problem, because I find it hot. I however couldn't even attempt to get a woody while fucking a dude in the ass, because I am not attracted to males.

 

She's doing it wrong ... That's all I'm going to say.

 

You do realize gays/homosexuals in most cases give each other blowjobs as well...

OT: did something traumatic regarding blowjobs happen to you? A girl friend of mine (girl friend, not girlfriend) recently had her parents walk in on her and her boyfriend having sex, and now she's terrified of having sex because of that. Did something like that happen to you? And do you have an emotional attraction to your partner as well? Bc the intimacy level plays a huge factor as well.

 

You would usually be already hard going into a blowjob. The BJ is just for extra hardness before going into sex.

 

Not really? For some attraction does not equate to being hard. A lot of men require stimulation before they can become hard, no matter how horny they are. I'd actually wager to say that it's quite a large percent who are this way once the initial hype of sex dies down lawl. I know when I first started having sex I was always hard on command, now I require stimulation usually. I don't have trouble keeping it once I've got it though.

 

Have you ever done anything with a girl other than a bj? That's really the most important question.

 

Never heard that before? The closest thing I can relate that to is a girl telling me she didn't like the idea of giving a bj. But your story is confusing ....

 

For all of you calling me gay. I've had sex with 13 girls. I'm not gay. Blowjobs have never gotten me hard. It feels good but it doesn't get me hard. It's kind of like a massage. They feel good but do they ever give you an erection? No.

No I'm not 13. No I'm not using lube on my penis for a blowjob?

 

Congratulations on fucking 13 chicks.
Haha, but BJ's are the way to go man.
Good luck

 

Thanks, lol. Yeah they feel good. Idk, it's just something that doesn't get me up.

And no. There was no traumatizing experience.

 

Just don't ask for a blowjob then, do other things?
It's just down to you, whether you find something sexually stimulating or not.

 

Do you enjoy giving oral to the girl, does that get you hard?

 

You sir are gross.

And to the OP. You could just be a gay. Or she could be ugly as fuck. Too much teeth?

 

Is it with a girl? If it is, maybe you're attracted to guys and that's why it doesn't turn you on. Or maybe they weren't good enough.