Sex, drinking, and more sex.

Hello Sythe.

First, before I start, I would like to say I had an account here long ago but I forgot the username/password, is there anyone here that can help me with that?

Ok the story:

I am 16 years old and your normal guy. About 4 or 5 months ago I was hanging out with one of my best friend who drinks, smokes weed, and does other things. He asked me if I wanted to try weed and I told him no. Then he asked me if I wanted to drink, I told him that I would try it.

I drunk something called four loko, I'm pretty sure some people here know what it is, if not, it's a drink that has alcohol + energy drink. This being my first time drinking I got drunk off this, very drunk. So after that me, my friend, and his friend who is female had a threesome. I liked it, although I can only remember bits and pieces, I know that I enjoyed it.

Then about 2 months after drinking and random sex I wanted to step it up a bit. I told my friend that I would try the weed. So he gave me weed, 50% alcohol called Southern Comfort. What I didn't know is that he mixed the alcohol with something else, he didn't tell me all of what it was. So I had sex with my friend, his sister, 2 random girls and another guy. This I don't remember too well because I passed out half way in.

Now every other week I'm drunk and having sex and it's starting to become a problem. In school I can hardly concentrate without thinking of getting wasted and sex. At the moment I'm President of the Honor Society, head of our school Law Academy, Lead tutor, etc but I'm losing it and other people around me is noticing.

I ask you guys for help because if I don't get it soon I'm going to lose everything that I've built. I cannot bring this to parents and anyone else who knows me for obvious reasons.

Do you guys have any advice? Thanks.

 

You might want to have this moved to personal support, otherwise you will just get general remarks and not helpful advice that you are looking for.

 

Ok I was trying to but the box thing told me I can't post there.

 

Just message a mod and i'm sure they could move thread for you mate.

 

?!?!?!?! WHA

 

Southern Comfort is alright, gets yuck after awhile. Yeah the drinks would have been pre mixed right? like the energy/achohol. Im not really sure to tell you, but i dont think you should do weed. Its bad

 

Something about this just doesn't seem realistic.

If you drink enough to the point of passing out, you can't get an erection. Making sex with 4 different girls, and 1 guy, in an evening, quite hard.

 

My advice would be to refrain from putting yourself in such situations. I'm not saying completely ignore your friend, but don't hang out with him after school or during the times he is conducting such activities. I know it's hard, but if it's impacting your life as drastically as you say it is, then this would be the best way to go about it.

 

The weed was ok. It was the combo of the alcohol and whatever he put in it that hit me hard. I know it was pills but I don't know what was in them. Now I'm becoming an alcoholic and sex addict and my life will go bad

 

Arrg misread.

My advice would be to simply cut down on the alcohol, that seems to be the catalyst for you.

 

No I had sex with 2 guys and 3 girls but it didn't go on at the same time. I was hard from the beginning till I passed out then when I woke up I was still horny with a massive headache >.<

 

My Advice would take it one step at a time and try to avoid situations with that friend.

 

When You Say You had Sex With Two Guys and Three Girls are you talking about you being gay?

Or you just taking turn on the girls?

 

I had sex with my friend, his sister, then this other guy who came over there, and 2 other girls who came over his house.

I'm not gay but I was too high to care.

 

I don't Understand what that means did you have sex with a guy?

 

Yes all of them.

 

Why even post this if you disagree with everyones opinions lol.

 

So you had sex with Several Men, Buy your not gay?

 

The weed isn't the problem, it's the drinking and whatever those pills are.
I never disagreed with anyone advice.

 

Weed is OK as long as you don't go and turn into a ecky freak while you are at it. I would recommend not drinking as much as you are because it does start effecting your school life.

If you are too afraid of drinking less because of peer pressure or for other reasons follow one of these tips:
1. Drink water with alchahol.
2. Have Wheetbix just before getting drunk
3. Drink low alcoholic drinks (4% - 8%)