My Girlfriend..

Hey guiseeee.

I'm gonna ask an outsiders opinion. I already asked about 30 or so of my close friends what they think, and right now I'm just curious about what some of you guys think.

So the other night I drive to my girlfriend's house from work and on the way I pick up like a ridiculous amount of roses. Like seriously, there was a LOT of roses. I get in with the key she leaves outside and make dinner for the two of us. After dinner is cooked I take the roses and leave a trail of roses petals from the front door up the steps into the bathtub which I fill with hot water and bubbles. And then I leave another trail from the foot of her door to her bed and I leave more rose petals and a bunch of whole roses on her sheets. I put my iPod on some speakers and play her favorite band Angels and Airwaves. The songs I put on the playlist were real slow, romantic type songs, you know the deal.

So she comes home, we eat dinner, we go upstairs, take a bath together, and then... well you can see where this is going. And just for the sake of the story she was elated the whole night and the sex was fantastic, she seemed VERY energetic.

But the next morning when she wakes up she's like... kinda pissed. I made her breakfast and she didn't even say thank you, she barely said a single word all morning and the drive to school was extremely awkward and quiet. She gets out of the car, doesn't say a word, or goodbye. The fuck?

I call her and text her, she completely ignores me. I finally get her to talk to me last night and she's just one wording me like a bitch. The FUCK?

Is she cheating? What's the deal, guys? She's done this type of thing before but never like this. I would like some opinions.

 

Only can be two things,
She's on her period or she's cheating, if it's happened before it's more likely to be her period.
But all in all shouldn't stay with a girl who doesn't appreciate you.

 

Considering the events that took place, let's assume it's not her period >_>

 

It could be cheating, she might be feeling kind of guilty after a night like that.

 

That's very curious.

I doubt that that she's on her period, but she may feel smothered. Do you often notice her mood swings, or is this the first time?

A few years ago, a girlfriend of mine felt tied down and irritated when I would do thoughtful things for her like buy chocolates or write letters to her. Needless to say, it wasn't the best relationship that I've ever been in, but I still felt crushed afterwards because she was the first person I had an intimate relationship with.

A friend of mine (who's also a life coach) showed an article which I found extremely helpful. I hope it helps you too!

http://www.michaelppowers.com/wisdom/kitchen.html