Last Night.

I went to a party and I was standing there with a friend smoking a cigarette and talking. The next thing I know is this girl is talking to me and she’s not bad looking and you know we started to click so after a while we talked and I groped her and were just generally flirting. After about 10 minutes this guy pesters her and she kissed him but I got a bit pissed off which she had seen and said don’t worry I wont doing anything with him because your better looking a nice person and not looking for sex. So we swapped numbers went to a club and her sister gave me a lift home. I text her in bed last night/this morning when really drunk saying she was a nice girl good looking and too good looking to talk to me.

She said shut up and to text her today. So I woke up around lunch time and text her and she replied and we texted for about 5 hours and I eventually said we should catch up next week and have a drink to which she agreed but it would have to be next week as she was busy. Then at around 8 tonight she said she was going to bed because she was tired and I was like ok that’s cool. Next thing I know she replied to her friend on facebook and had ignored me.

What should I do? Should I text her tommow and see how things go? I don’t want to get emotionally attached this early but I felt something there. There’s also another issue because she is 16 and I am 19 which I don’t feel great about. So what should I do any Serious advice would be good. She’s good looking I am not great but not bad and she said I was a really nice guy I am so confused to what to do.

 

Just leave her a lone bud, you don't want to get involved with a weird girl like that.

 

Really? I just think it may be that she is playing hard to get ? Im not sure.

 

Yeah man, if shes weird like that
better just wait it out and see if she comes to you

 

She sounds really immature and unstable, which coming from a 16 year old is not too surprising. Don't get caught up in her games and get your hopes up, because she sounds like she is nothing special and like she is only looking to wrap you around her finger.

Blow her off and keep looking for other girls out there. There are plenty out there, and I'm sure you will find one who is perfect for you

 

By the looks of it, Zerker nailed it on the head.

Highschool girls, let alone underclassmen girls, are extremely immature Im most cases. It's not something you should go after, the average relationship with someone like her is about 2 weeks. If your looking for anything serious, to even semi-serious, leave her alone. Even if you were looking for something purely physical ( which from your OP doesn't seem to be the case ) it would be a bad thing to get mixed up in. Im assuming, however i could be wrong, that your in college being 19. Not only would it more than likely hurt your reputation, but hers. A 16 year old going out with a 19 year is going to get a lot of flack for that.

I could be wrong, but i doubt it. It's not something i would pursue, nor would i recommend anyone whose mature to try.

 

I totally agree with Meeder1

 

Pound that shit out.


Not but in all seriousness man, the age difference could cause her to be much more immature than you're used to/want to deal with, so take it slow and just kinda let things work themselves out. Keep your chin up and if you start to think shes playing games with your head, drop her and move on to the next one.

No reason to set yourself up for disaster over a girl.

 

Ur starting to act a little too needy for her. You need to back off for a bit, and let HER text YOU. Not vice versa. Girls want a game, they don't want something so easy.... When she texts you...wait a few hours. Text her back...then when she texts you back...wait another 5-10min...then text her. Make her want you. Make her want attention from you. Good luck.

 

She sounds insane and problematic, probably because she's either very immature or just confused - I'd steer clear. Girls like that always end up backfiring on you (sometimes literally...).