Younger girl....

UPDATE: I got her number haha. Shes COMPLETELY different when texting than in person. I don't like it lol. In person, we laugh, and just poke fun. But, it just feels too serious with the texting thing.

UPDATE: I went on our first date, and it went PERFECTLY. Hahah. Haven't had that much fun b4 on a date in awhile.

I typically wouldn't type this out, but most of my friends don't know what to think either...

So, I am an 18 year old male in the USA...

This girl at work is 16. One of the HOTTEST girls ive ever met...

She has blue eyes, and is a brunette, I have VERY high standards, and Id give her a 9.5/10 for her face, and a 10/10 for her body. Her body is PERFECT...my god lol...

Anyways, first day she comes to work, doesnt know whats up, so I go up to her, and just have small talk, no flirting, just small talk. She was SUPER shy, and would smile and "giggle", not laugh, at some of the stuff I said.

So, today, i saw her again, which is about a week later, and I see her, and she keeps looking at me and gives me a small smile...So, im like ok, she is interested. So, me and my coworker go up to her and this other cashier girl, and ask em for advice on this one girl im going for (whole different story). I did that, cuz i wanted to see breannas reaction (the 16 year old). And she started swaying and just kinda smiling, but looked disappointed, so that was a sure sign that she kinda likes me.

So, I went up to her again to talk to her, and she still was SUPER shy, but I started doing my normal game, poking fun at her, making fun of myself, just my normal flirting shit. she is LOVING it.

So, i had to go back to work, then i came back for last 15min of my shift, and start doing the flirting and what not again, and she lovesss it, but it still super shy! Its really hard to keep a convo going, but im good at having no awkward moments, and i keep the questions flowing, and the poking fun at going.

So, work is done, her shift is done, but i didnt think it was time for me to get her number or anything, so i kinda played the hard to get kinda thing, and not act like i really want her, and just walked off to my car and boogied outta there. Ik for a fact, ill get her number, but what im asking is...should I go for this girl? I mean i am 18, shes 16. Im not interested in the sex, im more interested in the bragging rights lmfao...shes too damn sexy....and i just love her shyness and mysteriousness, which i normally hate. Shes a junior in highschool, and im a freshman in college. What you guys think?

 

I think you should leave her alone. She's underage for a first. Second you just want her for bragging rights? Don't see why you would wanna brag about getting a 16 year old girl. And Eventually you are gonna wanna have sex with her and if you do and someone finds out you can go to jail.

 

I personally think you should keep playing the game it playing and see if she'll come after you, don't act to hard to get but don't come off as needy, and once you get her # or FB, then you got her forsure, considering you know to cake

 

I mean, it isnt all bragging rights, but my bros and I like to compare which girls we are getting with.

<3. Thats my game in a nut shell haha. good shit. Im thinking ill get her number next time i see her...and see how it goes. Only thing is, I really hope she gets to be more out going lol...

 

Actually I take back the whole underage sex thing. I thought you were 20 but then re-read and saw you are 18

 

similar kind of situation i am in, guess the laws are different over there though. I have had a girlfriend 4 years younger then me and it was defiantly the wrong idea, girls that age don't want a long lasting relationship it just turns into casual sex

 

Who isn't shy the first couple times try meet someone they're attracted too? Lol, it's str8, just give it some time, continue caking whenever you get the opportunity, and don't come off as a lame nub, and get that #, and you know damn right once you got that #, you got her hooked

 

I have never really dated a girl younger than me before, but a 2 year age difference is nothing if she is smart, mature, and attractive. It sounds like you got good game going on and that she is definitely interested in you, so I would keep going for it bro! Because she is a bit younger, she may be relatively inexperienced with guys (which is probably why she appears to be shy and not as outgoing as you would like). Be patient with her and give her time to come out of her shell. Don't intimidate her and pressure her into sex or a relationship and I am sure as she grows more comfortable with you that she will loosen up and become girlfriend material.

I have to say though, I think your logic behind pursuing this girl is rather messed up. Bragging rights?

 

Itz destiny, ya its still illegal for me to have sex with her, but u think the 2 years isn't too bad?

Skyline, you kinda sound like ur more of a relationship type of guy, I like em, but I am more of a guy that likes to get around, cuz I hate being strapped down, but I wouldnt mind dating this girl for 3 or 4 months just for the hell of it.

<3, yes dude, thats EXACTLY my plan hahaha. Im just gunna keep being mr cool, and keep doing what im doing, but im kinda mad i didnt get her number b4...should have gotten it, so much easier then, cuz where I work, it can be pretty chaotic, so i might not have a chance for a lil while :/.

 

I definetly agree with you about how she is inexperienced with guys, considering she is still a junior. thats about when i started going for girls and shit. Ya dude, im all about not forcing it, I think thats borderline rape, cuz ur kinda having sex without her really wanting it. She would definetly be girlfriend material as far as with the looks, but i am still a little leary with her personality, cuz she doesn't really initiate a lot of the conversations wwe have. Im used to girls bantering back if I poke fun at em hahah.

Ya bout the bragging thing. It somewhat is bragging rights, cuz most of the guys i work with r fucking BEASTS at getting girls, and I could finally prove that I have some game, cuz they've never seen me in action. but, I think if her personality gets better, Id be extremely satisfied without having to have bragging rights, cuz it would be more enjoyable to me, not having to do aalmost all the work in a convo. U get what i mean?

 

Didn't want to say it because it would sounds rude but i just root and boot now, to young to be tied up in a relationship

 

You should just be friends. Then when she is 18 go for it.

 

Bragging rights? ... Get a girl you enjoy spending time with alone, not just in public so everyone can see your trophy girl.

 

I can kinda see what your saying. I have a few friends who are the same way with girls, they go through them like toilet paper, have 1200+ added on facebook, always appearing in public with busty blondes hanging off their arms. I can see your need to impress and compete with your coworkers so that you can prove to them you have some game, I understand. But I feel bad for the girl because you are basically just planning on using her to be your trophy girlfriend to show off to everyone before giving her the boot and moving on to the next one. Personally, thats not my style.

 

+1
She's young, plus, it may turn to sex, which can get you in a hell load of trouble.
Byt the sounding of it, you barely know her, just like her for how she looks. If you're that way and really don't give a shit about her, do whatever,

 

Don't get with her if you're just going to use her to brag, take her out and see if you actually like her..

 

If your just dating a girl for bragging rights, especially if people figure that out ( Which people undoubtedly will ) all it's going to do is fear off the girls who may be seriously interested in you, I'm not sure who you hang with, or what your going for, but last time i checked, "Player" isn't exactly a label anyone wants.

 

Ya I understand where you all are coming from. A lot of my buddies have thought I been a player at certain points in the past few years, but I been good at covering that up. I am DEFINETLY about to just have sex with this girl though...sex really isn't my cup of tea (odd?). I really just find this girl extremely interesting considering she is soooo shy, and just plain old mysterious to me, which makes me want to get to know her more.

 

Don't do it, there's no point, get a real relationship with someone your age that will actually mean something.

Honestly, you need to grow up a little, using women isn't right really, and she'll eventually find out and hate you when you could be great friends.

Be friends, it's not even legal for you to be with her, she's turning 17 if she's a junior so in a year, maybe, you'll know eachother really well and could actually have a great relationship instead of a fake one.

 

When you said you wanted her for bragging rights I cringed. I say dont go for her. She's underage and to me it seems like you like her for mostly the wrong reasons. Not trying to hate bro, just my thoughts.