Who should i take the risk on Please help by giving opinions :D

okay.. soo i need opinions.. so theres this girl(A) that makes me smile even by just calling and i feel great being around her, we have a load of fun, we fight but then get back on track and everything is all sweet. and we have dated but now it seems that she just want to be friends (could be wrong).

and then theres this girl(B) it feels like we just met and we dont really talk but when we do and its only a little convo we flirt etc and it feels like something is there and would like to get to know her better because ill be going away in a couple of months and dont want to wonder what could of been :/.

who's worth the risk? and Please give your opinions..

 

in my opinion, it's too early to start making decisions. maybe you should wait a little more?

 

yeaa.. maybe like i dont mean go ask them on a date or what ever i mean like just hang a little bit more etc coz like girl (a) i dated for 7months and im not sure if i want to play it safe and get back with her or uno try someone else but girl(B) knows that i used to be a player and i really got to prove to her/ show her that im not that guy anymore.

 

This is where most people mess up,

Girl (A) you seem to be just friends with, but she could be hoping for you to ask her out. Way to determine this is loose contact with her and see if it bothers her.

Girl (B) Doesn't know you very well, but is clearly attracted to you. OR a plain simple flirt, A lot of girls are like this. Most the time they'll tell you if they're interested or not.

Don't be diving in and asking one of them out, Let them come to you. When you're texting them or whatever, always make yourself out to be busy doing something. Always be happy and not moody, Always be excited towards something, Like a holiday with your mates or something. Make sure they feel like they would be achieving something by just getting to see you in your busy schedule.

Don't open up to them and keep things hidden, a man of Mystery is very attractive to a girl, and they want to find out more! A girl that knows everything about you isn't going to be interested in you.

I could go on forever but really in this situation, be more interested in other girls than you are in them, treat them as friends unless they're giving you obvious signals they want otherwise, and make them work for it.. Not too hard, but at least a little effort.

Hope I've helped in some way or another.

 

Bro thats pretty good advice haha kindah funny in the same way like thats how i act with most chicks haha^^^

 

Best way my friend

 

You sumed it up your self " you dont know to spend your life wondering what could of been"

just sit down with girl A and ask how how it is friends or what be straight with her if she says friends etc its basically opening up the path for you to go to B and risk it whats the worse that can happen... she can say no which is no big deal go for it u wont regret it

 

I have to agree with Burnley.

Ask girl A what she really wants, if she says only friends, well, keep it that way and risk yourself in something greater with girl B.

You won't really lose anything.

 

Obviously girl A, in my opinion. More of just an opinion though.

 

No risk involved. You obviously know (A) pretty well, so, it shouldn't be too difficult to have a straightforward conversation about what you both want, and if it doesn't work, no hurt feelings. If it does, great! If (A) doesn't work out, just go for (B). Nothing lost, since you now know that you aren't missing anything with (A). Best of luck!

 

Trust me, I have the same situation as you, I have a girl (a). I would take the risk with (b) because you aren't missing out on very much with girl (a).

 

Sit down and talk to both. You said you don't really know 'b' too well so ask her first to have the practice, or whatever. Then go to 'A' and talk with her as well.