Need advice.

Hello, I am a guy who lives in Latvia. A lot of people even does no know where it is, so if you do not, go search on google.

Always wanted to freely talk about some problems, ideas, but never have had a person which I could talk about EVERYTHING. No, I have friends, a lot of friends, but probably I have not a real, close friend?! I do have girlfriend, I can talk with her about lot of problems, but not about all.

My girlfriend is year older than me, this year she left me, she went to other city, to university. No, we did not brake up, we still are in-love, but this is only second day. I do no know how it will be to meet her 2-4 times per month, because earlier I met her every day. And the problem is that, you can laugh, but I think I am addicted to sex. If you know how it is, probably you can imagine how hard it is, and if you meet your girlfriend so rarely. When I have not had sex few days, I think sometimes I will blow up, my mind will blow up. And even if I have other problems, the tension increases. So I wanted to ask advice. I am not planning to cheat on her or break up, at least for up coming months, but my plan, you can laugh again, use another girl for sex, just sex. It sounds like I will have sex with slut, no, she is not slut, just a well known girl who would have sex with me, we both would have good benefit, no emotions, just sex as physical closeness, sex as sport, as relax. Now I am thinking, what to do, tell this idea to my girlfriend or not, she usually understands me very well, she always wanted third girl to have sex with us, but I do not know how she will react to thing like this, because all this happens without her, being her far away.

So I would like to hear anything, any suggestions, any commentary, anything.

The other thing is that in center of our city, we have a shop. I and my friends usually go there to buy something to eat, or drink, usually some chips with beer or vodka. One seller always did not liked that we arrived 10 minutes before shop closes, she always spitted out : "Ah, those beer drinkers" , "Those beer drinkers never can not get in a time" and so on. Many of our friends did not like her attitude, including me. Last time I went there, she said again things which I did not like, I contacted the administration of this shop network saying that I did not like her attitude, told what I must hear when I enter this shop etc. Today I got reply from administration - she got fired yesterday. I was in a shock, I did not mean to fire her, I was punishing myself about what I have done, then I thought that I did correct, I have hear from my friends about her negative attitude to clients. She lost her jot because of me, her attitude was not something omfg, I could just ignore her. But looking from other side...why should I listen to negative commentary almost every time I enter the shop.

What do you think, I did it correct or not?



Well, those are the things I would like to discuss, please advice me and help a bit.

 

You don't want to cheat, but you are planning to have sex with another girl? I don't really understand. I think that if you tell her she won't be too happy.

EDIT: Didn't see the other part but I think what you did was right, being an employee she should be providing good service.

 

Well, in my opinion = cheating is when my girl in my situation would not know about the other girl, and true cheating is when you start feeling something more emotional to other girl. If it is physical sex, with no relationship feelings, emotions, then, in my opinion it is no cheating.