We Hate Each Other Outside :/

Well there's this girl in my class that I really like. We talking quiet often and she likes me a lot because I'm funny. I also sit next to her . Alright so, we kinda have a hate for each other, the sort of stuff where you don't answer or hit each other (not hard ) and so I want to ask her to be my GF. Last time we had activities in class and my friend wanted to sit next to me. But she started pulling me close to her and was like ''No I want to sit next to him''. Also she leans over a lot! We kinda have the inbetween love that you don't show but we know. So should I ask her tomorrow or what?

And lastly, we're 12.

Thanks:love:

 

Don't do it yet wait a bit longer. Patient is the key =)

 

I've only known her for this year lol, but she seems to really like me XD

 

If you're 12, honestly don't bother. Relationships at that age are stupid, focus on school. Big chance it wouldn't last very long anyway.
If you really want a girlfriend though, just ask.

 

D2Killz when did you get unbanned ?

@ Noodles ....... You have a point there

 

First off, I agree with the other posts in say there is no point at that age as it won't last very long, but you do how ever need practice and starting at a young age will make you better at it in the future.

What I'd say though, rather than just ask her to be your girl friend, invite her out somewhere, if you get a kiss, see how far it goes etc and then ask her to be your girlfriend

 

When you talk to her try to get to know her, ask personal questions and stuff. Tell her stuff about you if you get on real well start trying to hang out with her outside of the classroom. Maybe at lunch and stuff or even hang out after school. Ask her out after you have been with her outside of school alot .

 

I don't really ask personal stuff a lot but she tells it to me, lol. Also I don't really ever get serious But I'll try hanging out with her at lunch tomorrow ^_^

Thanks for all the Answers.

 

Hey dude, your 12, you still have all the time in the world. Take your time, there's no need to rush

 

I was all ready to give awesome then I read that you're twelve Trust me dud you're not in-between love or anything cause I guarantee you don't know nor will you know for several years about love But you might as well ask her out in my opinion I mean your really young and I suggest you get the experience now. I've only had one girlfriend in my lifetime and I'm still with here so it's really about picking the right person the first time and not having tons of BS relationships which honestly is what middleschool/most of highschool relationships are

 

Be paitient. Spend more time with her outside of school first, then make your move.

 

Serious, it makes me kind of sad to know that people have to ask randoms on the internet about asking girls out when it's doomed to fail. Not just here, everywhere. Oh well.

If you seriously wanted to be with her you'd have asked her out by now. I'm serious, if she likes you as much as you say and you like her, you'd not have needed to ask here. It seems fairly one-sided to me, given you said yourself you can't be serious very often.

Honestly, I'm not trying to be harsh, but it's reality. Why would you go out with someone if: 1) you don't even understand how YOU feel, 2) you haven't even thought about the foreseeable future?

 

lol get her phone number first and talk to her on da phone den ask it would be much better since im assuming ur shy because your asking if its ok to ask her out lol

 

Not really shy, I might be one of the most enthusiastic kids you ever know. And I don't plan on talking on phone or anything.. We kinda now talk on facebook 24/7..

 

Give it a try I would say, having some experience is always handy ^^

 

Everyone posting is so pessimistic and cold. Sure, chances are damn good you won't end up marrying this girl. You are 12. Normal people are supposed to have multiple boyfriends/girlfriends regardless of age throughout their life.

Just ask her out spite the fact that you probably won't end up happily ever after with her.

What stable 12 year old looks at a girl and thinks "I won't be with her in 10 years if I ask her out, so I'm not going to" You have plenty of time to realistic and harsh when it comes to the opposite sex, not when your 12 though.

 

It's a sign of maturity when that does happen. I've had one girlfriend and I can honestly say I'd rather it never happened. The more partners you have, the more of a basis for comparison. With each subsequent partner the feeling is still adulterated by experience. If people are being pessimistic, there's probably a reason behind it.

Experience isn't necessary for a good relationship. You might as well say to your partner "don't worry I've been with several women before so I know what I'm doing."

Edit: I just found this funny that you put "stable" and "12 year old" together in the same sentence. Ideally you have MORE time to think about these things when you're younger. The instability and unbalance of hormones however means that people choose not to think and that's when people start to falsify how shit their lives are. It's not behaviour that should be encouraged, contrary to your seemingly innocent belief. It's not really arguable considering most of us have been 12 before, and we've all experienced it.

 

Your still to little dont rush the cycle of life let it flow in as it should wait a bit longer.

 

You're giving advice from a 20 something year old standpoint to a 12 year old who just has a crush on the girl he sits next to in class.

You seem to be trying to make him overly mature for his age. At 12 a girlfriend is a girl you see at school and go to the movies with. at 20+ it's the girl you may think of spending forever with.

So what would your advice be to the OP? Forget the girl and go play Runescape instead because he might be emotionally tormented by her?

I just view what everyone saying here is anti-social and cold.

 

go for it i sopose

When i was in highschool i had a friend just like that, she was the type of girl who would write her name with a <3 and my name and stick it in the front of the notebook so everyone could see it, we never dated we where just friends.

So don't read inbetween lines if theres nothing there to read