High school

So i have this girlfriend i have been dating for about 2 years


we dont agrue that much; maybe once a month cause pms but its not big;

we already went through long distance cause she went china for about a 2 months && well it was hard but we pulled through it
Have no trust issues because we been through enough relationships that we know we have too trust each other && etc;
I went through enough girls too know what too do; && you know the package xD


What is the chance she will be the one? we will go same college && im a senior in highschool.
I was reading 80% everyone at the age or 16 already met the person they will marry is this true?

 

Well i work on a completely different level to you.. I had a serious relationship from about 18-21, then i finished her because she basically had her claws into me and i was restricted on what i could do without an argument. But now I've got a new girlfriend i can't take her seriously as I'm just waiting for her to fuck up too.. It's doing my head in because she's a really sound girl, but can't really help it!

On a side note i won't be thinking of marriage / kids until i'm at least 25+

 

I have known people meeting at the age of 16 and being together for 50 years. Saying that i think being single is the best thing to do at an age like this, get out there and explore and meet lots of new people!

 

Personally, from experience none of the girls I dated in high school were "the one", but then that's just me, there is no way to tell if she is your one or not, all you can do is keep dating her and see what happens.

 

She will mess up don't have too much faith in a high school girl. I dated my ex for 2 years and she cheated on me with my best friend during high school.

Your young don't get locked down forever

 

ok this is horrible advice. Just cuz ur experience was bad doesnt mean his will be too.

My advice:

See how it goes, ur going to the same college so youll be together, if she starts to change [in a bad way] then u can see something coming before it happens. If you guys stay happy or change for the better maybe she will end up being the one, but u cant keep that in your head everyday just live life and enjoy time with her, youll know if shes the one sooner or later.

 

Yeah; i was just thinking like this; cause i can do other stuff if she does something bad;

I could be a stock brocker faster && things & it gives me more time too hang out with friends && etc.

I wish it plays out; cause we have a lot of good laughs && even after the time we still laugh even time we are with each other

 

Don't rush it but do not fear it.

"The one" is a feeling that hopefully will come when you really care for someone you would ideally like to spend your life with. However this is not an end. Even if it does not work out that does not mean you lost your shot. Sure, there may be one person out there for you but the feeling of "She/he is the one" is not the determining factor. She/he may be the one you will marry but that feeling does not offer a set prediction just the path in which your feelings for the person is already traveling down.

Advice, be open and up front with how you feel. Do not let fear of opening up and talking. Communication is key. If this person is (or not) the one you better be able to communicate with her effectively and clearly. Lack of arguments can more or less be a sign of weak communication. Communication does not mean that you will fight, but you will find out more of eachother and likely things you differ/disagree on WHICH IS OKAY!

I was in a 5 year engagement and it fell apart because there was lack of communication on her part. I'd want to talk it out, she would clam up. I never yelled and her and we rarely had a argument. However there was no real communication.

Talk to your person about the deep and important things you don't tell others. They will seep up eventually. Love, marriage, kids, jobs, where to live, religious belief and political views. There are other topics, those are just a few coming to mind.



Or not.

 

haha we do; we talk about fights && everything;

we talk a lot; trust me if you knew me im not very dumb

But she wants me to marry her; but we both wanna wait until after college; cause i wanna get my masters && she wants too get atleast a bachelors

 

Blaming your arguments on her menstrual cycle is the worst thing you could possibly ever say. Please never say that to her, even if she acts okay with the response she'll be crushed inside and embarrassed. I think that you're still to immature to decide on such a big decision on rather or not you want to spend the rest of your life with someone. Don't forgot, you're not the only one in the relationship maybe she doesn't want to be tied down forever. Only time can tell, my cousin and his girlfriend dated since they were fifteen and they just recently got married at the age of 29. It takes time, this isn't something you decide on over night.

 

85% shes not the one. Just saying. Believe it or not , but you are just too young yet.

 

She talks about it all the time; but we dont talk about it all the time;

Only like every couple months; cause idk if you guys have this; but dont you guys have the moments that you guys think that you can spend forever with that certain someone?
&& yeah; im guessing. but you know when you more irraited ?
im not sure; we dont really argue cause we know each other good enough too shrug it off

 

I'm sorry but you have no idea what you're talking about. Grow up a bit, and wait until the right time to decide this. If you even have to ask this question you're not with the one, when you're with the one you'll just know not with even second guessing.

 

Alot of people change drastically in college, the girl you met in high school probably won't be the same person you fell in love with.

Don't tie yourself down, but don't think of it like a sinking ship

 

The girl you meet in high school is NEVER the same girl she continues to be in college.

And I'm going on my 3rd year of Uni, and in a relationship. When you know she's the one, you'll just know.

 

Keep the relationship going, it might only be high school love, but if it doesn't work out you'll have many more chances in college. As for her changing, everyone changes every 6 months, whether the change is something good or something bad it all comes down to how you react to it, so if she changes try and find the good in the change. Arguments are life, don't let them control you or your thoughts and feelings, if you truly love this girl, you won't let the argument take over. I wish you luck on your relationship and any future relationships.

 

idk if this is true but sum 16 yr old bitch wants to marry me. thats not going to happen lmao

 

Let me tell you something. Most relationships in high school usually don't last and are just a spur of the moment. You are growing up and exploring your feelings. Out of everyone I knew in school, only ONE couple since freshman made it together through senior year and even got married. Everyone else either just wasn't cut out for, had problems, fights, lies, cheating, players, etc. Most were just not ready for love or even a relationship.

So what I believe just keep the relationship going in your senior year. Then decide after high school is over where you want to go with the relationship. If she is the one then she will be the one. My mom always told me if you do love that one person then you will end up with that person in the future.

I always went with this. I have been in multiple relationships in my high school time and none of them were the one I was looking for but I blame it on my reputation.

That 80% thing is a huge bogus btw. Also long distance relationships are hard to keep up but it is possible only if you do indeed trust eachother through everything and girls look for honesty as the most important part in a relationship. You are still young though and anything can happen in the future.