Date your friends ex? Please post opinions...

dude thats against the bro code.. haha

 

Trust me dont do it . Totally the wrong thing to do bros before hoes is my motto.

 

try and divert your attention, steer well clear

 

Tell him that you want to hook up with her and if he has any problem with it tell him to speak up now or it'll be too late.

 

I think your friend is telling you he has a problem with you two dating without actually telling you he has a problem with you two dating. I wouldn't do it, especially if you only "kinda like" her.

 

Black eye will last a week, if you really like this girl, your feelings for her may last forever.

Also, I'm currently in a relationship with a girl who a close friend dated for a year and a half. I've been dating her 3 years in October. There's nothing wrong with dating a friend's ex.

 

I personally would advise against it, regardless of whether or not he says it's okay, I can assure you that deep down inside he probably feels as if you're betraying him, and value you your relationship with this girl more than your relationship with him.

 

What is wrong with you? Don't be that guy, the guy who just caves to female seduction, and just blows off all his male friends just because he thinks he can get some action. Do your friend a favor and just leave it alone, stop talking to her and stop hitting on her. You've already embarrassed him enough by completely going behind his back and talking to her about his feelings and that's already enough damage as is to your guys friendship.

 

Why would you want to get in a fight with your best friend of seven years over a girl you just met? Terrible advice, and you're an awful friend indeed. He doesn't even know the girl, she's probably just some bimbo whose trying to break up a solid friendship just because she wants revenge on her ex boyfriend.

 

Just stop and think if this friend is worth losing off of a girl you "kinda like".

Even if he says it's okay it really isn't, he showed that he liked her, and still does from what you said about him hitting on her.

 

I would, liking each other and "love" is between two persons... nothing else is needed. Of course, take it calmly

 

I've never understood the whole "don't date my ex" thing. As a guy, I personally don't give a damn if every single one of my friends dates an ex and they have some big orgy together.

If the relationship is over and didn't work, it's over. I have no connection to her and I shouldn't be limiting her choices in a guy she likes just because I dated her at one period.

 

If they've been friends for seven years, and this kid dated the girl before, they probably didn't 'just meet'. And please, don't make any assumptions about my friendships, you know next to nothing about me, and are saying some things that are quite inconsiderate, I was sharing my EXPERIENCE with the matter.

I've been in a relationship with my friend's ex for three years now, and have never been happier.

Don't assume that all girl's have bad intentions because one girl broke your 14 year old heart. That's how you wind up being old and alone. Live life to the fullest, take the chance, I did.

 

Wait a few weeks and ask again. Let your friend know that you seriously like her. Don't listen to these other people saying that it's just highschool because high school is where you meet more people than you'll meet at any other single place ever. High school isn't exactly ALWAYS the place you'll find you're life-long spouse but High School relationships do work out on some occasions, and my girlfriend and I have talked about it and her parents were even high school sweethearts and I know it's "JUST" a girl and pussy is just pussy and all that tough guy bullshit but eventually if you want to be happy in life you're going to have to be with something you really like. Talk to your friend and tell him it was a long time ago and if he really was as good of a friend as he sounds, he should be fine with your endeavor.

 

Don't do it, I've nailed my mates Ex.. He doesn't know but feel like a dickhead about it.

 

I'm in a situation like this, my best friend of 8 years is dating my ex from a year ago.

I honestly didn't care or think about it until this moment when I read these comment from people. I honestly do not care about it, I even help him out sometimes.

We both know pussy is pussy and if I can help him get some then why not help him out. We are all bros in the end, no shame in helping him get a girl her likes, not like I haven't moved on.

I'm 20 and going in my 3rd year of college. (for anyone wondering.)

 

How long were you seeing her for?..

I was seeing my ex for 3 years.. I'd boot right off

 

I was seeing her maybe for a month, not long

 

Bro-code clearly dictates: Thou shalt not date thy bro's ex.

 

If the dude is buffed and will destroy you, I wouldn't. My best friend made the mistake of sleeping with my girlfriend while I was with her.... Didn't end well for him.