[Guide] Dealing with bullies.

this isn't a joke but if your being bullied at school, and have told adults or teachers and still the problem persists then time to take a fists on approach if you think you can try and go for a fist to the face to show how you feel.

actions speak louder than words. trust me on that.

but if you don't feel comfortable then what has been posted here is what you should try

 

Good on you

And to the people still talking about how you should fight obviously didn't read the thread.
I said if someone HITS you, only fight in self defense. I've reported the flame post above because he obviously has nothing better to do.

Thanks everyone for posting.

 

Just because someone hits you in the face, doesn't mean your life is in danger. If they're armed then good luck with defending yourself.

 

Did I say anywhere "If someone hits you in the face, your life is in danger"?
Nope.

Also, it's called learning to disarm someone.

 

Okay I'm just going to go read up on L2 Disarm Someone For Dummies. Lmao jk.

Already know how to disarm someone (family of fbi, detectives, chief of police, etc.), I prefer learning how to fight. I've done 1/2 year of kenpo, used to practice hand to hand combat on my own for a year. You don't need anyone with you to learn how to fight you just need a strong heart and stand up for yourself.

You can't let a bully take you down for the rest of your life. I get it self defense is the only way to respond. Get the kid in trouble and when he fights you... you better destroy him lmao.

I advise you to run a few miles every day because you'd need the endurance for a fight.

 

It's not what you said it's what you implied. You're not helping anyone by telling them to fight back especially when they're fighting someone whose heavily armed. If someone is mugging you, give them what they want and hope that they don't kill you. I'd rather live with nothing, then not be able to live at all. Especially if they're fighting you to get something so juvenile like an Ipod. Learning to disarm someone is a whole different topic.

 

I agree, and I disagree.

You should only fight IF you're being physically beat up by someone, only in self defense.

But I still don't agree with the whole fighting thing anyways, but that's just me.


@ Rebecca, I implied that if you're in the situation where it's a matter of life and death, defend yourself.
I was also implying if you were being beat up constantly, defend yourself. Fighting fire with fire isn't smart but fighting fire with water is smart.
If you get what I mean by that.

 

Fighting with fire against fire or with water is still fighting in general and I completely disagree with fighting at all so I'll leave it at that. There's so many ways to deal with a bully, that there's no need for any violence. This is also two different topics going on here, being bullied at school is not the same as being violently beaten. Anyone who causes harm to another student is usually suspended and eventually kicked out if a restraining order is put in place. That's how it's like where I go to school.

If you're at school and getting tossed around in the play ground by another student there's usually a reason why you're there in the first place. Don't run your mouth next time or act like you're better than anyone else. I usually hang out in bigger crowds and that usually keeps the haters away because they're threatened by the larger numbers of people to back me up in those situations.

 

Obviously you have not read the guide, does not state anywhere in there that fighting is supported.

Please stop posting if you have not read it.

Also, if you're being beat the shit out of, you're just going to sit there?
If so, you're an idiot.

Also, fighting fire with water, you disagree with that?
In a literal sense, ok durp, let's allow buildings to burn down, and spread.
In a non-literal sense, water stops fire in most cases correct?
Water = Getting help to stop the bullying, and defending yourself when needed.
Fire = beating the shit out of the person.