Shot myself in the foot?

Ok my friend said he wanted me to go to his student party which he spent £500 on and to support him he is one of my best friends if not my best friend and I went around my Ex-girlfriends house had a few drinks and I said I would go and see my friend to support him for a hour or so. So I went to his party and had a few drinks and had a dance but as I left hers she told me that If I went to his party that it was over for good and that what I had told her the night before was bullshit because I told her I loved her because I do ad that I should never speak to her again. So I went to this party and got drunk and she said never speak to her again and that I am a waste of space and time and to never speak to her again because she is moving on from me. I dont know what to do as I love the girl and need advice on how to win her back.

Please help .

 

It would help if you used punctuation in your sentences... Also, what are you not telling us? Did you get in a fight before you went? What was your relationship prior to this argument?

My advice is give it time. Wounds don't heal in a day. Give her a few days to cool off, then go talk to her face-to-face. Start by apologizing for not listening to her.

 

I'm not sure I fully understand.. She didn't want you to go to a party that you wanted to go to or you'd be over?.. Sounds controlling.

 

She told you what was crossing the line, and you proceeded to do so.

Either you will need to make it up to her, or it's over dependent on how she is. Yes, you shot yourself in the foot.

 

If you had promised your friend you would go, and she was telling you not to go for no reason, then she is in the wrong. Unless you had told her you would spend the whole night with her, then that's a different story.

 

She's not worth getting back. Do you really want to be with someone that insecure? I know I wouldn't. Find someone that isn't going to drive you insane. Don't hold onto this one just because you feel love there's lots of girls out there, and I bet you that you'll find yours one day but this one just sounds completely off.

 

If she's controlling enough to mean what she said, then, I'd suggest you try and rid her from your mind. Girls like that aren't good company.

If she's saying it as a pissed-off joke, then, let time pass and she should gradually forget and forgive.

 

Well; As for as What I understand, Your attending two parties. One for your girl and another for your best friend. You were planning on going to both but your Girlfriend didn't want you to go to your best friends party and if you do it's going to be over...?

Well, I think that you need to confront her and tell her that you also have other priorities in life than just completely focusing on your Relationship status. If she's an understanding person, Then that would be awesome.

//Bro's before hoes.

 

I dont understand what your saying rephrase it please.

 

Girls like that are more trouble than it's worth, don't bother trying to win her back.

 

I'm having the same probelm as allot of people here, don't really understand the situation fully, you havn't explained it well or used much punctuation etc, edit your original post?