In what kind of cases is suicide ok?

First I want to get it straight I am not trying to go over board with anything, I just think my time has had it will and there is no point of going on.

Since a young age I was teased about my speech impediment which made me really caring toward other people, but it also made me extremely submissive and easy to take advantage of. I have been taken advantage of several times, and honestly, I have lost the will to continue trying. The last year I have been doing a lot of friends with benefits, using other people, trying to put my past behind me, and make myself feel numb to everything else.


College is now right around the corner for me (3 more days) and I don't see myself ever being happy. I have no confidence at all, most of my friends have deserted me, I have become more introverted then anyone I know, except when it comes to sex. In fact, the only reason I did nothing to myself before is my parents.

I had a small idea to make it look like a accident of some sort. I mean, the only reason I still try to go on, is not to hurt my parents, which the biggest thing that would hurt them was knowing it was on purpose.....


I just don't see while I try to be happy, to even attempt to have a life anymore.

I won't do anything stupid or reckless, maybe someone will clear this up for me a bit before I decide to.

First time I posted here under my username.... I guess it doesn't matter if someone finds out its me anymore anyway.

I am going to take a few days to think about it before I check back on here....

 

I felt like shit before starting college, too. I wasn't speaking to many people before I started and I thought my friends deserted me. College is a great way to get to know more people, I met my best friend in college last year. You know during college is probably the best way to discover yourself, you'll find out what you want from life and become more secure with yourself.

Sometimes suicides an easy way out for yourself, but you've got to remember that it will destroy everyone in you family. If you go to college and meet new fiends and stuff, I think you'll realise how certain people can change your perspective about so many things. You really do need to keep thinking positively because it will get better eventually.

 

Dude behave

you are very lucky you know there people out there starving hungry or being useing in sex trafficing which are far worse of than you people who work 18 hours a day for small wages who would kill to have your life.

When banter occurs and you say a joke about someone else and everyone laughs 10 seconds later you dont care about the joke and your not realy botherd about the thing you aimed your banter at so when people do banter on your 10-20 seconds later they dont give a crap nobodys perfect being able to takes the piss out of yourself infront of other people does wonders and you realise no one really cares about someone elses downfall its just a good laugh to pass time.

As for your friends deserting you fuck them ollege you will find loads of friends plus were in the year 2011 you can be 100% entertained form your own bedroom these days with all the technology make you forget and pass time quicker =\

It get's better

 

Even if you feel down right now, it will get better. I personally don't have speech impediment, but one of my friends does, and I speak several languages so I stutter occasionally too.
If you enjoy helping others, why don't you take a trip to Africa to help with orphanages? That might take your life off of things, and make you feel good about yourself and give you a point of going on.

 

I think suicide is okay when you're in extreme pain and you know you're gonna die a long painful death anyways.

 

You have alot of reasons to live and I don't even have to list them because you can. You should think about that first and foremost is your life - many people have overcome adversity and succeeded in life. You can be one of those people and you know it. Taking your life or even attempting too will not only hurt yourself but it has a ripple effect that will hurt your sister, parents, even exes and friends.
Think of your new college life as a fresh start, I had troubles with confidence as well and I will tell you one thing it's in you to overcome it's in all of us.

Hit me up if you ever need to vent or anything but remember suicide is NEVER the answer to ANYTHING in this world.

 

I didn't even read the post yet but i'm just gonna go ahead and say, suicide is NEVER ok. I know alot of people nowadays don't believe in a higher power, a god, and my advice goes straight through them because they're "atheist" but suicide is never ok. No matter what the case, it's a unforgivable sin. I really hope you get through whatever is happening to you and always have faith, I know that it seems bad but once you fight through all of it you'll look back and realize how glad you are you toughened it out and got through your hard times in life.

 

wow man chill fuck your old friends man no body realy keeps there friends from school these so called "best mates" dont stick around you find new people every ones life moves on get a job and a missys you will be sorted trust man or go get some drugs every thing will feel okay and you will see sense and not to put a downer on you saying you wouldnt do it i was told by a guy who worked for this help line thing that 1-3 calls were people saying they were going to commit suicide but none of them ever did cus they woke up the next morning and thought fuck it, if you still feel like shit go to the doctors theres loads of anti-depresents out there they work--- im on them one in four people get depressed at some stage in there life it realy common what wil killing your sellf achieve you only have one life and you will die eventualy so why not make the most of it you will get to the death bit later hope this helps you bro

 

Tbh, never, unless your life is constant pain and torture like your dieing in extreme pain that won't go away or your being held captive and tortured. Lol but all in all srzbiznizz suicide isn't right.

 

Suicide is ok when you're in immense pain and you're most likely going to die within the next year of your life (Not including suicidal reasons).

 

Listen to this whole song.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eTy5gIm7J6c&feature=fvst

that would be the only reason i would understand

 

Sounds like self induced euthanasia... I'd rather it be performed by someone else (like a doctor or something). I don't think I could do it myself.
But, suicide (for emotional reasons) should never be ok, there is always a way out, you just need to be willing to ask for help and know who to go to.

 

I would like to think everyone who posted. I have got some really good advice and stuff and I am starting to feel better about everything going on. Thanks....

 

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Most people at their teen days are never happy as there is too much stress as more responsibilities is on your shoulder. There are people who are depress all the time and are peer-pressured onto drugs, be thankful your not into drugs and when I say drugs, I mean hardcore drugs like meth. Life is great with bumps that you need to overcome like the one your on. If you ever take your life, do you know of how many people your going to destroy? Your family will be devastated, is that what you want? I doubt, your mom will be ever happy after that one day you take your life away. Just don't do it. There is people in worse situations than you, just stay strong.

 

Whenever the person has given it a lot of thought and decides that is what they would like to do.

Pro choice.

But you should really evaluate your situation a little better and try to see things from the other people's point of view. By killing yourself you're basically letting them win.

 

You're at a turning point in your life. Why would you end it? Have you gotten accepted into colleges? College is 100% different than high school. You'll find friends. If you decide against school, you can find a full time job. You'll meet friends at your job. I've had a close friend who committed suicide, and it really will ruin your parents life. His dad and mom are completely different and it's been over a year.

Killing yourself is selfish. You definitely don't seem to have a horrible life because you at least have 2 parents who love you a lot, because they're apparently a major reason you don't want to do it. Don't put them through that.

 

You'll make it through everyone goes through rough times its not just you.

 

If most of that is true I would strongly suggest contacting the authorities about your parents...
As for the original threa creator, no time is good for killing yourself.
Id give you a long speech, but clearly other people have told you how bad other people have it.

 

I have THE Same probleme.... I have thought about sucide several times.
I don't have many friends, I can't defend myself at school because I'm too skiny. I'm getting teased all THE times. I'm not THE handsomest boy.
They only thing why I don't do it is because I have 1 year to go in highschool and them I'm going too college.
I know how ya feeling bro.