Blowjobs don't get me hard..?

If they don't get you hard and you want to be hard, then use viagra?

It could be a good thing since you'll last longer when having sex.

But besides viagra, then, maybe don't ask for a bj?

 

maybe they're doing it wrong?
I wouldn't worry about it.
Just muck around until you find something you DO like.

 

Maybe shes doing it wrong, cause your thought seems really wrong.

 

Might be the chicks giving you blowjobs.. I thought blowjobs were decent, nothing special, and could NEVER cum from a bj. Then my ex gave me one and a few minutes of ecstasy later, I was like oh shiiiiit, what's happening? She ended up swallowing, damn I miss that chick.

Anyways, how many chicks have given you a blowjob?

 

How many times have you gotten blowjobs? First time I got a blowjob I lost my boner.

 

It would be a hard guess about the arousal part, if you have an erection and she begins to give you a blow job are you able to keep your erection?

How long have you been masturbating, and how frequent?

It could be that you receiving oral just isn't enough stimulation for you, your penis could be de-sensitized (not necessarily a lot, just to where a BJ isn't working for you).

 

Solutions/Answers

1. Your doing it wrong
2. Your gay, so you should try it with a guy
3. I got none...

 

Perhaps she's not doing it right.

The amount of nerves down where your penis are at, whether your gay or not is irrelevant. If someones tongue and mouth are around your cock, you should get hard, unless, they're not doing it right.

If they are, then... I got nothing, perhaps consulting a doctor if your not embarrassed about it.

 

Even if the bj is bad, it still get's me hard...
Idk what to answear tbh.

 

Relax. When I was younger I had the same problem because I was concentrating too hard on getting an erection. Once you relax and let her do her magic, things work fine.

 

Ask her to tease you.
Trust me when a girls fingers are trickiling downwards around your stomach...

Good luck sir.

 

Had to reply and quote this when I saw it. This is going in my signature.

Anyways OT: I don't get hard off them either, I prefer the sex and I guess knowing that the blowjob is just a prequel to sex (As I have never had a blowjob that didn't lead to sex.) I guess I just don't get instantly hard off the blowjob, I get aroused yeah, but usually it's right after the blowjob, before I'm about the fuck her that I get hard...

 

Get hard, then get a bj?

 

It's actually quite natural but not common.

Hint: Google

 

Holy crap brotha are you for real? I don't know what to say to offer support in this case. Maybe it's the alcohol that can be a contributing factor to ermm limpness.

 

Its fine, its not like theres anything wrong with you. Different people are attracted to different things lol

 

Maybe you just have a floppy disk when it comes down to women. Maybe you're a homosexual or just not interested in your current female. If she doesn't turn you on try asking yourself are you really attracted to her or are you just with her because it's safe.

Are you just not getting hard from her or by every female that gives you oral sex?

 

I got a friend that doesn't like BJ's he's like "I just don't like it" I'm like "I can't get off from one." Personally if a girl is good at it, and use her hand you'll def. be going crazy.

Even after a long night of drinking and a girl goes down on me, I can't help but get hard....Even on whiskey nights.

 

Lol, sorry to hear that man. Don't know if anyone's suggested this yet but, look up what the male g-spot is. It's the area of skin directly behind the testes, if you get the girl to massage that spot while she's giving it to you, your shit's gonna go through the roof.

 

Anyone who's calling you gay is just stupid. I understand what you mean about not getting hard, I mean I get hard, it just takes a while. Either the girls not doing it right, or you're just a pussy guy. Maybe have the girl put stuff in her mouth like ice or stuff from sex shops.