Oh man...

Allright guys to start off let me say that im typing this out on my ipod so I will try to get right 2 it. Allright well we are familly friends with this...erm..family. We do lots of stuff together like trips to he waterpark/ see them at church and gym all the time. And their daughter is well....amazing -.- its so confusing because sometimes she acts like she is fliriting with me and will get really close to me (intentionally?). But i can't be sure...for example some guys saw us hanging out at the waterpark...and theyxasked if we were brother and sister....she said yes! Another time like this we were standing togrther and she reffered to me as a " familly friend". I really just can't tell cuz like i said she is sending mixed signals -.- Normally I would just ask what the deal is but I don't want to ruin our friendship/make it awkward from now on/ get our famillies too involved. Not sure what the heck to do like wheb my little called us erm.. "lovebirds" all she said was " well you love insert name". As i said very conflicting signals etc...its like she can't mAke up her mind. Any advice would be great sorry about the wall of txt as i said im typing on my ipod

 

Play it slow, choose whether or not you want to be in the friend zone or not.
If its a family friend it might be awkward.

 

Alternating between brother-sister relationship, and family friend relationship is actually not all that uncommon, and indicates nothing. Sometimes it's simply more convenient to be introduced as the former, and sometimes, the latter.

As for what your little sister (?) I presume said, don't worry, they do that to stir you up.

Dw about it. Next time you talk to her, look in her eyes, and when she's looking at you, see if her pupils dilate. If they do, then it probably indicates that she may find you pulchritudinous, though not necessarily.

 

Thanks Malakadang.


"Alternating between brother-sister relationship, and family friend relationship is actually not all that uncommon, and indicates nothing. Sometimes it's simply more convenient to be introduced as the former, and sometimes, the latter."

helped my clear my mind a little bit : P

I will try the pupil thing tommorow ahah

 

Dont get in the friend zone try dating her before you go into the friend zone trust me you will be friends for life if you dont fuck up. My best friend is my ex girl friend from freshman year.

 

yeah today I mean to make that clear.

 

what should I do to make is clear.

 

Idk if it would be weird to date a close family friend, try talking to her about things like dating and see what happens

 

yeah man....its really awkward.

heck idk what im going todo ; P

 

You could try asking something along the lines of "Hey do you like anybody?" or "Do you like insert name here?" or just flat out ask her.

 

I didn't get the chance to see her today as planned -.- "do you like anybody" seems super childish but might as well.....

 

Honestly it's worth a shot but just do what you think will work.

 

Well, don't rush it. You will feel awkward forever if you mess it up.

You can ask her if she likes you, because you might as well play it clearly if you decide to play it. If you ask 'do you like anybody' she will expect you to ask her out, and if you don't, you look a bit foolish.

I'd just ask her. And if she says no, I think it's clear. Don't tell anyone, don't talk about it if you don't want to.

 

Just go for it, it's worth risking the awkwardness if she's that hot..