Help ........

:embar: Well me and my Girlfriend we were having sex tonight and one of her girl mates said could she watch so I said yes I dont mind so we start doing it and all of a sudden I cant maintain my form as such and just became limp. Is this normal to lose a Erection during sex all my friends said they have had it before and its the first time it happend.Its just I feel weak and ashamed and embarassed because of this :embar: Please can someone help me . Btw I am 19 and I do drink alot and smoke do you think these factors played a part in this?

She told me not to worry because I have never had this before.

 

That's normal, I've had it before too.

 

Drinking and smoking, even if they aren't combined can cause that. Especially if you're just white girl wasted... it happens.

 

Hey just saying I have never had this happen and I have been dating the same girl for 2 years and she is the only one I have ever had sex with but maybe that is just because I find her very sexually attractive and maybe you dont find your girl as much. But Yes I am sure drinking and smoking both have much to play in this role.

 

Normal, but smoking and drinking does gimp your dick a lot. I felt so bad for the girl that couldn't get me going and was scared she was going to feel insecure or something, but shit like that just happens at the best of times sometimes. Also if you weren't really in the mood then it might have played a part.

I bet after a while her friend would have joined in... You're a lucky guy

 

Possibly just performance anxiety since someone else was watching. I wouldn't worry about it at all unless it starts happening more frequently

 

What Kabal said. Relax, if your friends say they've all had it, there's nothing to worry about. If you're really worried, go to the doctor.

 

Peer pressure would be my best bet.
If I were you I'd just give it another shot if you would like to perform for an 'audience'
Keep me posted (=

 

Because you weren't comfortable with someone watching.. thats all

 

Should of told her to join in instead of watch. I never want to see you in the "dream jobs topic" say you want to become a pornstar.

 

Alcohol makes it hard to get an erection. Combined with performance anxiety, it'd be hard to get it all going. If you are going to try this again, I suggest you stop drinking a few days prior to the event.