Personal issues.

Hello.
Well, here where I'm going to be post. Ok, I have a personally issues at the moment. I am 14 years old, everything are good. When I am 13 years old, I got new girlfriend, we relationship for 5 months, suddenly my girlfriend was accidentally threatened to my dad.

Because, my parent has goes to Canada for meeting, so I have to go with my grandparent house for week. My dad wouldn't let me to take my phone to my grandparent house because he is thinks that I'm going spend all of the games (vibes pay by phone). I did that before, but I'm stopped. So, he won't letting me to take my phone, grandparent have no internet. I couldn't stand without Internet or any technology at grandparent house.

So, I am friend with my dad on Facebook. I made a status that I won't have any technology with me for one week, I am were so pissed off with parent. Well, I couldn't contact to my girlfriend for one week, it's sounds like I hate her but I didn't. I explained to her, she say keep convince to them. I was like ok.

After I made a status, my girlfriend commented on my status, suddenly my dad saw my girlfriend commented, he yelled me out why did she do that, you are back stab to us (parent). I say I didn't, I backstabbed to you because I never told them on your name or parent. He was not happy at all.

When he left at Australia, I'm at grandparent house for one week, no contact to my friend and girlfriend at all. On this time, I were so depressed. When my parent got home, we had a interacts. My dad say; well, I'm banned you to date with your girlfriend, I was like WHAT THE FUCK? I haven't convince to them. He say; because your girlfriend threatens to me. I say; we don't :/ and I haven't convince to both of you. In few days later, we did apologize to them, then he accepted our apologize, he is allow me to date with her once every a month, I say it's was not fair though, he say bad luck. So, I told her about whats going on with my dad. She were exciting, she started to realize that our relationship is over.


In few days later after this happened. When school has been opened on first day of beginnings school, on this night my girlfriend just dumped me with an idiot reasons. She say; I don't like you much. We are difficult relationship at the moment so we could be good friend. I was so upset. I think everything is spoiled by my dad.

Second day of school, when I catches the bus I feels so so so sick, I couldn't move any at all. When I get in the bus, I feels like I want to vomit now, I was demanded to not trying to vomit. I rang to my mum, she wasn't happy at all because she have to drove pick me up at school while she is working. Just not too well.

Me and ex-girlfriend are ok with the friend. Obvious the boys try to hook her up, she've got new boyfriend. I'm feels I'm so shame to myself. Well, in my mind; I think somebody thinks I'm stupid boy, immature, etc... So I'm wants to try to reducing quiet, how can I do that? I really wants to be quiet at Facebook but I couldn't, how can I should this the problem?

How can I get girlfriend straight away? I am currently desperate wants to be have a girlfriend at the moment.

PS: I am sorry about my English.

Thanks for your time to read.

 

Well, that just sucks :S
Whywas she excited when she realized your relationship was over?

Anyways, don't rush it.
Asking everyone out is just stupid, take it slow and find someone you like. Talk to her, hang around with her, and ask her when you know the answer is yes. Just don't rush it.

 

True, true, and true. I am currently like someone anyways, I can take a easy at the moment. I'm waiting for her to start friendships each other.

 

Good! Just don't rush it. If girls don't like anything, it's a guy that rushes it all.

 

1st thing, don't apologize about your English, although your posts are not correct grammatically, you show you have a good sense of the English Language and that's all that can be asked.

2nd: Don't rush into a relationship. If you do rush into one in my personal experiences it always ends up bad either for you or for her. Like mill3n said, take it easy, find someone you like and become good friends with them and just let things take course over time. That way if/when you start dating, you know more about each other and can find things that you both have in common which will help the relationship grow.

 

Thank you for the first one. I hope you are aware that i am actually deaf in real life. Yeah, that one what I was thought so.

 

Thank you for the first one. I hope you are aware that i am actually deaf in real life. Yeah, that one what I was thought so.

 

You dont need a girlfriend bro,.

 

Huh? I like to have one, because I'm want to socially with a girl for now, later so easily to get the girlfriend. I like them than boys.

 

Don't follow your dick , and remember it takes time to find a right girlfriend.

 

Well. I decided I am not going get a girlfriend until I am older enough to get one a right girlfriend. Thanks, Gandiva.

 

Your dad sounds like a massive douche.

But don't worry. The only thing middle/high school relationships are good for is to get you ready for the real thing. Just think of it as practice.

Don't look around for the "perfect" girlfriend, because 9,999/10,000 relationships at that age are short and fleeting; barely do they ever last.