open relationship

so basically i knew this girl since we were young ,we are studying together in university and for like 2 months we started talking alot

we talk 5-7 hours a day sometime on fb or phone or we skype at night..( I flirt alot with her)

so basically you can say we are in somekind of relationship but we never said we are officially dating tbh I would love to keep that way I hate being attached
to someone..

first question
i am going to a party with her tonight I don't have to dance only with her right?

second questions?
should i keep it that way ? what is bad about open relationship ( btw i am the kind of guy that get jealous easily )






edit: went to the party had the first and last dance with her .. we danced for like 30 mins i told her in the end sorry we couldn't dance alot she said yeah u were busy dancing with other girls...
she danced only with me ,another guy and her girlfriends

btw her girlfriends were like loookin at me in a bad way since i wasn't dancing with her...

 

Open relationships are awful if you are the jealous type. If you do get in to a relationship after the open relationship, you might lose trust in her because of your jealousy. Without trust you can't have a relationship.

Question 1 - I'd just dance with her at first and see what she does, if she moves on to dance with someone else then dance with other people. If she dances with just you that means she wants to be with you.

Question 2 - Pretty much answered it up there ^. But I'd pick relationship over keeping an open relationship.

 

You also have to consider double standards. You said you're a jealous person, so if you saw her with somebody else, it would undoubtedly make you uneasy. Don't you think it would be unfair to try and be with other girls if it makes you jealous when she's with other guys?

Honestly just consider what this girl means to you. If you have feelings for her, go for it.

 

I just have to say this about open relationships, they won't work if either of you have feelings for each other or are jealous.

 

He said it the best. Open relationships are the best way to ruin your relationship with that person.

 

thnx for the replies guys

 

Yeah open relationships dont usually work, but goodluck with whatever you choose

 

Open relationships work if
you dont catch feelings.

 

everyone i know told me it won't work :S

i think you are right if i don't catch feelings i will be okay