How to tell if she's into me?

So I'm living in a huge 6 bedroom 2 bathroom house now, on the west side of Montreal. Small sector, but beautiful right near the river. 243$ a month. It's a fucking steal. Long commute, but eh.. it's worth it.

Here's the rub, my only roommates are two girls. One is 20, the other is 24. I'm fairly sure Michelle, who's 20, has a boyfriend. I don't want to cross that line. However, Kelly (who looks Chinese) is 24. She's going to college to be a Dietitian. Heh. Whatever you make of that, it does = an extremely hot body. Mmm.

Anyways, I invited her to La Ronde (Amusement park here) and like all other times I've invited a girl somewhere, I'm never sure if they are aware that it's an invitation passed for more than just wanting friendship. How can I tell if she knows this? I see signs. After I invited her, I gave her the map of La Ronde so she could catch up on the rides there now, then she came to see me in my Room, real close, touching my arm // hand slightly, then we talked a bit more. It certainly feels right but eh.

It would be quite a deal easier if you could just be straight and open with a girl. I hate the charade of deception, you know?

Since then a few days have gone by, I've even cooked for her (and Michelle too so it's not that personal yet) and being a pretty decent chef helps in that regard. She seems happy when I'm around, comes to see me in my room, smiles a lot, giggles non-stop, maintains eye contact, and her hand seems magnetically attracted to my arm.

However all of these could simply be signs of her being a very friendly person. IS there anyway I can know near 100% that she's into me? I want to know so heavily because if, for instance, I were to try and kiss her at La Ronde; but she's not into me... that would be awkward, but not just for that moment. For the entire period I'll be staying in the house.

I have the home field advantage, but it also increases the risk a bit. I don't want it to be uncomfortable here. Do note though, I'm only staying here for two months.

Thanks.

 

You can take this trip to the amusement park as an opportunity to connect with her. Get to know her and show her who you are. Odds are that she is really into you according to the story you have given us. I wouldn't rush things but it seems like the pieces are starting to stick and you two could very soon be romantically involved. Just don't do anything that you know will be wrong, the moment of you two opening up two each other will come very soon if things keep going well.

 

I also live in Montreal. I'd suggest telling her that you're into her, and asking her if she's into you. If so, things would be much easier to juggle around. As for Laronde, if you're trying to pull a move, make sure it's not too much of a hektik ride. Best of luck.

 

^ as said above,

typically we men have to make our move first, even if it fails you dont go saying, what if?.... you get me? your time is limited so get to know her better, idk take her out to dinner and what not, even if just as friends it helps her build feelings for you, but other than that good luck :] best of wishes to you

 

Hey thanks for the support guys. I'm not sure if just outright telling her that I like her is a good idea though, might put her on the spot a bit too much.

My plan is to have fun and try to get a bit closer with her and flirt some more at La Ronde, then kiss her. I hope it works out!

 

get drunk together. SORTED.

 

I don't drink. It does make it a bit harder. Drinking is practically cheating when it comes to sex and girls.

 

cheating?

nah. it just loosens you up. it's a big confidence boost.

 

Quite a bit to update on..

So, yesterday she came back, things were good. We chatted a bit, teased her, she still touches me a lot especially on my shoulder and arm, I love it. She wanted me to feel her super awesome muscles from working out. Hardly! Squishy still, and I made sure to tell her. xD

I'm trying to touch her more too. Especially when we're sitting down, I can put my arm around her. Great.

She's going rafting on Sunday, and she invited me along. It's awesome. She invited me. Unfortunately, you have to reserve well in advance so that's no option. She's going to be bringing her two huskies here on Sunday morning, which is FUCKING AWESOME. Damn I miss having dogs.

Then she offered to drive me to work, since she's heading downtown. She was meeting someone but had to leave quite a bit earlier than I work so I said no but thanks.

Later that night she was running much later and she invited me again; so I said sure. I went with her in her car. We spoke some more. She didn't even know that I was only there for another month or so. She seemed pleasantly surprised. Something just clicked. She thought I was there permanently. If I were, there's no way I'd risk getting close. It very well may be why it's been so hard.

Moving on, we get to Montreal, near a park. She was meeting someone to practice dancing there. We had a few moments before she showed up, I held her hand and it was good. The whole thing was a bit surreal. Then he showed up, they practiced for about 30 minutes. Then I had to go to work, she went clubbing and yeah. Oh and I made sure to push that she brings her bike back to the house.

Oh, yeah.. she dropped me off a bit closer to where I work. She was clubbing just a few blocks away so that's cool. Thing is when I got in the car that time, she gave me that look. That stare with the huge wide open eyes.. just screaming "I want you".

Damn. I really didn't expect such a good night. You guys with your rushing, you don't understand the dynamic of LIVING with the person you want, before you even know each other that well. It's not like the normal dating dynamic. I think I got this.

Oh, yeah I forgot to add, probably one of the coolest things and certainly made me feel great; she was essentially bragging about me to this other dude, lol. About my bike ride, and everything. If she likes me in that way or not, it's extremely evident she is very impressed and respects me, which is definitely something.

 

you are IN man LOL

I knew it from the constant physical contact. When I like someone, I'm always in their space.

Give it a shot. Make a move!

If it goes sour... you're not going to be there much longer anyways haha

If you need liquid courage, only have one or two... a drunk guy sleazing on you is something you remember, and not becuase it was good