Relationship issues =/

Well, I've never really been a dater, I'm more of a party person, and a fling person.
I told myself I'd never date during the summer, and in the first week of summer, at a rave at a beach, I met this girl who used to go to the school I got kicked out of , we got along pretty well, and we've chilled quite a bit, I asked her out a week and a half ago, and it's been going amazingly, my friends love her, all of them, which is quite odd as they typically are assholes to girls, and don't approve dating.
The only issue is.. she's a fucking sex addict. It sounds good, but it's a hassle.
We go to a party, and we're all drinking me, my friends, her friends, and people, and within 15 minutes, she pulls me aside and we go to the garage, stay there for about an hour and a half fucking, then go back. By then everyones hammered and I'm still decently sober, I take 3 shots and we chill for 10 minutes, and after that, she takes me onto the roof, and we fuck again for.. an hour or two? After that we go back, and everyones getting ready to leave because the last bus is in 15 minutes, she makes me stay over, and then we just fuck all night.

Like, I really don't mind sex, but I can't even enjoy parties anymore because of it, and it's stressing me out because I just miss being with friends, and enjoying music and drinking games and things like that, it's just.. how do I tell her I don't want to fuck all the time? without sounding ... weird? my friends say it's a blessing, I say it's fucking annoying =/

 

Your best bet would be to tell her to quit being so Horny all the time, tell her you want things to go more slow. As you mentioned you fucked 3 times in a night, perhaps mention to her that you'd rather chill with the friends for a bit, then you'll fuck when they leave.

 

Just tell her, that you want to date her and that her being a sex addict may become a problem, tell her that you want to enjoy the party's and your friends and that the sex can wait until after the party.

 

It was 2 when friends were there, then till 7am when they left =/
But I guess I jus gotta be straight up =.=
Thanks ^.^ I'll post back with what she says now

Edit: Uhmm.. Ok ? did i do something wrong or what ? im sorry i enjoy having sex with you ..

=.= now i look like an asshole

 

then have sex before your friends get there.

 

yes, i agree. have sex first~~~ lol

 

Drop some E and fuck her.

 

You're a moron.

Anyway, thanks, had a long talk with her and we found a stable mutual agreement.

 

lol i have had this problem before , not quite as bad it seems like but similar , i just pulled her aside and straight up told her i want to enjoy the party she understood

 

I suggest getting her a vibrator so she might be able to handle herself better.

 

What is the stable mutual agreement.

PS: Also read your thread about giving up runescape, very interesting stuff.

 

Tell her you're pregnant.








On a serious note, consider purchasing her a dildo - although she may take it slightly offensive, just let her know how you feel. Rather you buy her a dildo than she hook up with somebody at the party.

 

just red your post didnt bother with other ones but i get what you mean sometimes your just not in the mood

 

Why the .... are there no girls like this in europe?
Anyhow, be honest. Say you're not just another sex buddy.

 

Just don't be so accepting when she tries to pull you away in public. Try your best to tell her that, although you do want sex, you also want to spend more time in the public eye and would rather save sex for later that night.

 

My ex was also like this, id just say no to her if she wants to do and you dont. And if shes breaks up with you then hey, better for you?