suicidal. please help

bro just calm down , dont let girls get ta you like that there all bitches i think atleast , just quit thinking about her , its not worth ending yer life tho bro its really not !

 

Remember one thing, and one thing only. Commiting suicide only makes people notice your for 15 minutes. Then people forget all about you and continue on with their lives. Suicide only hurts you in the long run. You won't be able to do anything anymore, and you'll hurt your family.

 

I know that it fucking sucks but that doesn't mean that you should kill yourself. And don't even try going up to her and threatening to commit suicide if she doesn't go back to you. Just focus on other things, maybe take a vacation or a break. Relax and maybe try to find someone else. I know that it's really hard, but the fact that she quickly moved on to another guy makes her seem a bit shallow.

 

I have friends with mental disorders (psychotic depression, etc.) that make them think like this from time to time. One in particular was addicted to heroin and attempted on her life multiple times, each time failing by mere chance, one time which she happened to contact me, and I talked her out of it. She is sincerely thankful she's still alive today, and she's one of my best friends now.

What you're feeling can be compared to an addiction, like my friend's. When your brain experiences emotion, it secretes chemicals in to the blood stream which bind to cells and make you feel the way you do. This is the same with any drug. Thus, as one can be addicted to heroin, one can be addicted to emotion. What you are experiencing is a withdrawal from love. It was abruptly taken away from you, and you can no longer receive this "hit" which has sustained you for so long. It's natural to feel heartbroken when something like this happens - you've been taken off something which has sustained you in genuine happiness for so long, and it hurts, I know, but it is not the end of the world - it WILL get better.

Your brain is telling you that you need love from one person, which you can't have, and this is why you can't think straight. Give it time, do not make any rash decisions, and find a way to release your emotions. Time heals all pain if you will let it. Be strong, accept the support of your friends and family. Talk to them about it and be open about your feelings. They will help you, trust me.

I find it important to mention that you shouldn't run from your feelings, either. So many people I know have ruined themselves with alcohol (and heroin, incidentally) because of things like this. You have a life going for you, and family and friends who love you and to whom you are incredibly important. Don't throw away what you have. I know what it's like to feel the way you do. Most people do. Talk to someone about it, and let it all out.