Just a hand job?

Bro. I was in a relationship with this female named Rebecca for like 2 and a half years; and the only thing I got was a couple handjobs, fingered her a handful a times and naked photos.


6 weeks ain't shit. She sounds prude, just like my ex was.. If you want something like that; I suggest breaking up with her, and finding someone else to spend your quality time with.. cause she sounds like it'll be a while before you get anything.

 

That's horrible advice. Breaking up with a girl 'cos she won't give you hand. -.-

 

Dunno why you want a hand job anyways...

But just go find a chick that smokes. Preferably weed and not cigarettes, cigs are gross.

You know the old sang, "If she smokes, she pokes".

Find a girl that smokes weed and you will find a girl that is down with at least fooling around, maybe even DTF.

All that I have said above doesn't necessarily mean you are looking for a slut, just someone more open minded.

 

So "quality time" to you is screwing someone? Apparently... that is probably why you never have had nor ever will be in a meaningful relationship. Rather you'll bounce around different girls just to "get some." Honestly, people like you irritate the hell out of me.

You can have a quality relationship without ever getting a hand job or having sex mate. If that's all you're looking for, then that's your problem right there.

 

It is against nature to not want to fuck as much as you possibly can.

 

Did you really ask for a hand job right after you took a piss...? Come on now man.

 

Kinda fucked up, never ask it will come if you initiate anything.

 

Why did you ask
/facepalm.

 

i tell my ole lady when i want a hand job.
she better give it to me quick too, or ill slap her around

 

It took me 2 years to get my virgin gf to have sex with me. I'm just saying if your looking for a quality relationship stay with her, but anything sexual will come really really slow. And when you do want something don't be so forward with it, its her first time. Just start undoing her shirt if you think she's into it and see how it goes from there. Its weird how they want to touch through clothes but never take 'em off. Ahhh virgins.

 

You killed it, like, hardcore.

 

Quality time is not screwing someone.. but if he wants any sexual encounter anytime soon; he's probably not with the right person.

 

Quality time can be different from person to person, one couple may just loving fucking and other may love going for walks so it's really personal preferance.

And at OP just take is slow, do you even have feelings for the girl? cause if you don't theres no point being with her if you're just trying to get your willy wet.

just give it time, and when she's comfortable you will know and it will happen. also, dont demand things, that's not how it works.

 

tbh, i think thats awsome, fair play to you

 

6 weeks?
after a week you should be fingers deep.
First timers are hard, but you just have to make her want to, turn her on, without her realising you are trying to do it.

Hopsin, you can have a relationship based around sex. Where that time you spend together is just nothing but sex...

 

wow,are you guys awkward?because if youre a shy type of guy,not outgoing and fun,then of course its a no.I mean if youre all goofy and say gimmie a damn handjob,and she knows youre kidding,she might actually just give you one.Been there.

 

She wasnt ready, it's not your fault. I'd talk to her about it and then go from there.

 

The people who base a relationship off of sex are the people you see paying child support or the ones getting divorced 6 months after they got married. It is not possible to have a lasting relationship if sex is the only focus.

 

I think a year and a half relationship with my ex mainly based around sex would prove that wrong, only reason we broke up is I got bored of it basically...
I dont have a kid, Im not planning on getting married. Just have to be safe about what you do

 

LMAO Same bro!!