Just a hand job?

Say you were just Joking that worked with me once but yer could go either way.

 

so how did it go?

 

btw if u want someone to give a BJ or even a hand job... first u take care of them... : P just a suggestion

 

Well. I just gives a suggestion of it; you should wait till the girl to ask you, will be perfect. Next time, just wait till she ask you or whatever.

 

Lol so you were given a second chance and still all you are thinking about is getting a handjob..

You made her aware that you want it, just let her act when she's ready.

 

y would u ask ur gf for a handjob? from my experience it just happens naturally wen she wants to do it, it wasn't wise asking for it. try make it up to her by doing something she loves or something?

 

Not trying to be mean, but it has only been 6 weeks. You two are still at Stage One. Honestly, you should of not asked her for a handjob. Maybe after a bit more time together, she might of offered it herself. She probably thinks you dated her for sex. Which is not a good impression, if a girl thinks that.

I suggest you apologizing and mention how bad I feel, etc. If you need anymore tips, add [email protected]

Currently, dating a girl, for almost an year. Good experience

 

Just tell her you respect her decision. It should be fine, unless parents or something get involved, but you're a big-boy, you can handle it But seriously, if she asks why, just say something like "Sorry, it's a lil' early, and I respect your decision."

 

You blew it mate. No way out of this mess. You basically showed her that you don't actually love her or are committed, instead, you only want her for her body.

She's hurt probably and will most likely dump you soon. My suggestion would be to toughen it up and brave it out.

Gl mate

 

You should've said it in a joking manner, therefore if she denied you, you could've said you were joking. Works for me lol.

 

You got'a ease her into it, let her take control on when she wants to do things. Not just come out and say 'want to give me a handjob'

 

Use this as an opportunity, keep playing off that same thing you said and even though it sounded serious she might think it was a joke. Give her flowers with a letter saying something like "handjob now?" or ask her every awkward silence you get. It could be like an inside joke between you two.

 

Damn if its her first you'll get left with a Indian Burn.

Yeah you aren't too smooth lol, you should have played it off if that is possible in your situation, but now just show her thats not all you want, and you'll get more that a hand job

 

That is some absolutely horrible advice. Flowers saying "handjob now?".. really?

 

You might as well have asked a random chick that question on the street.

Wait for her to hint at wanting to do something like that, sorry to hear that you make break up but just over a month for that kind of stuff is kind of early.

 

You should've just waited till she is comfortable around you, then you start making the moves. Don't just straight up ask a girl for a handjob.. Especially only after 6 weeks and she's a virgin. You should just try to make a move on her if the time is right, not too much though because she's going to think your just in it for sex. Just get farther and farther each time (each time as in every time you decide to try this, not every single time you hang out.)

 

i agree... that is a laughing matter.. down the line atleast to you. just apologize and say you want to be with her. i have had sex with women the 4th day after we met, even earlier. shit happens lol

 

This ^. my gf still bites a bit after giving me dome for over a year. some girls just cant do stuff.

 

obvi she isnt down to do the nasty so i would just let go of her , honestly if she gonna break up with you over something like that then shit bro !

 

Does anyone even give advise? everybody is talking about slowing down.
Every girl loves sex, but also every girl haves a different attitude.
My advise is to let her first experience something sexual. Start slowly with kissing and touching. Then slowly rub around her breasts. If she is oke, what most girls are at that moment, massage her breasts while keep kissing her. This is all still with the clothes on! lol. After that start moving your hand under her sweater to her breasts and go further. Tip: Before trying this because it's a young girl. Have some candles lighting and some music SHE likes on the background etc.. it's all about making her feel very comfortable. Play a it with her nipples. You will know if she likes it. She will start kissing more intense and she will start breathing faster. Then it's up to you to ask if you may go further, or just do it. I never ask because it will look if you are weak and doesn't know what you are doing. So slowly move down to her pussy. But remember when going down with your hand first cares her upper inside legs. rub with you hand on her knickers, she will definitely like it. then the move it will all depend on. Enter her knickers with your hand! Don't think you will get a handjob after this, it could happen. But it's important to make her comfortable to finally let her make you happy. It could take some time but eventually it will happen! If you wan't more tips on manipulating a girl to have sex really fast just ask.