Just a hand job?

so, im together for this girl over 6 weeks, i think its a nice time to do 'more', then just kissing and touching, i know other people wouldnt like it in this short of time, and i respect it, but ok.
so we were kissing and stuff last night in my room, touching etc
then i was going to the bathroom, i came back in my room, i looked at her, she at me, and there fall a silence moment.
i aksed really dry;wanna give me a handjob?
she refused, and i was emberassed, now texting, and i think shes close to breaking up, what to do?

 

i would say you pretty much blew it man, not much you can do but maybe explain to her your needs as a man or why you did it :L

 

why would she wanna give you a handjob after you just pissed?
work on subtlety, maybe just say you were joking i donno?

 

Don't be blunt, or blatant simply tell her you're sorry for being so up front & explain your actions along the lines of 'I made a mistake, we'll take things slow and if things happen, they happen'

I'll PM you my MSN, and talk it through with you if you'd like?

 

You fucked up by saying it bluntly. I ask my girlfriend for sex, and every time I do, I get farther and farther away from getting it. Like adverts said, Just tell her you made a mistake and are sorry for being so up front.

 

after 10 years when you remember this situation you will laugh.I would if I were you

from what you said you are still young 13-16 so don't worry man even if she breaks up with you not a big deal just apologize and say you made a mistake

 

Mate you don't get a handjob by asking, you gotta wait for it to just happen naturally!

I hope you don't break up over something so pathetic

 

Bitchez ain't nothing but goes and tricks.
Not the end of the world just say my bad and move on.

 

I don't think that is a very good way to break an awkward silence. Nothing you can do now except explain what you did wrong to her/

 

i sent i went to bathroom, i was checking my hair cause i want it to have it good when girls are around.
if i just pissed and then ask for handjob, that wud be even grose for me...
but she didnt knew i was checking hair, maybe she thought i pissed, i text her asking if she though that, thanks for making up ;p

 

Your girlfriend probably hasn't had much sexual activity if she felt uncomfortable. If you really care about her, be patient and let her slowly be comfortable with you. She probably won't break up with you but she probably feels insecure so give her some time.

 

Lol I'm 24 and I've never asked a girl for one. Shit just today I got txted to come have sex with a chick tonight. I think it's funny how as bad as we guys are girls are the same.

 

If you wanted to get a hand-job, just cuddle with her and see what happens. Don't be in it for the sex lol. I think you'll be good for now. She's probably a "newcomer" and insecure so you have to be easy.

 

she says she aint mad or something, but then i not should ask it that way, she never did more then kissing etc, so it was weird to her, now things goin alright, she coming here tonight, i hope i get a handjob :love:

 

Well. You just learnt your lesson. Man dont do handjob not again..
As you know some girl doesnt comfortable with..... u know;..

 

Too bad. You'll have to conversation to be nice, shows deep the loves, let her comfortable, and let her having some of the spaces.

 

Shoulda just went straight into "On your knee's or on ya bike"

Na, If I were you I would of started going down on her.

The only thing you can do is apologize and slowly progress again.

 

like that idea, ima try

 

If she's a virgin then you have to take it slow with her, don't just walk in and ask for a handjob. Focus on getting her to come out more, you want to get the mood right etc. Once you have done something with her she will most likely want more of it and things will go the way you want.

 

Btw when she does it, prepare to suffer because some girls don't know how to handle a man. Seriously. I've been there.