Anyone else get jealous b/c of a girl?

To keep it short, I've known this girl and shes been my best friend since eighth grade. One of the hottest girls in the school. Anyways, back then she was interested in my then best friend at that time so I completely broke off any relationship I had with her at the 8th grade dance calling her a bitch etc not revealing my true feelings.

Anyways fast forward three years to junior year. I decided to actually txt her saying i felt like the total ass I was for you know getting rid of someone so important to me and we patched everything up and now we have been talking and hanging out for ages.

THE PROBLEM: shes kinda kept the same group of girl friends since middle school so when we hung out and went to prom (she was my prom date) she met all my guy friends.

Next thing you know, she tells me shes been hanging out with some of them. anyways whenever she even MENTIONS one of their names I feel some sort of rage and get mad... I really can't explain it. I get mad towards her and towards my guy friends but then I realize how stupid that is and it quickly subsides.

Now idk if i like her or not, but i do know shes an amazing girl who i feel completely comfortable about. like i was extremely down after my ex gf rejected me when i expressed the feelings i still had for her. then when i start talking to this girl again i dont even think about her and shes actually lifted me up and i really dont even care for the ex anymore

Question is do any of you guys feel the same way about any girls? I always talk about al the girls who i hook up with etc and she talks about hot guys and i the same for girls, but i dont really know if she is into me and just saying that to get back at me for talking about girls all the time... sorry this is really jumbled up etc i just erally dont know what to say because emotions are overflowing

 

Hrmm, actually I trust my girlfriend completely. =/ Her being near other guys doesn't bother me as I know she won't 'do anything'. If you mean pre-relationship, It's the kind of feeling where you're ready to leave somebody unrecognizable to even their own mother? Yea I know what you mean, but it's less than effective to serve any purpose. =(

 

Dude this is exactly how I feel about someone. And it's literally the same scenario, give or take a small amount of time frame.

Let's be honest with ourselves... we like that girl, and we hate it when people, especially our good guy friends, flirt with her. We want her to ourselves. If you could, you would date her in an instant, am I correct? If she came up to you and said: "Be my boyfriend" you would not deny her. That's how I feel. It's really annoying.

 

I get jealous easy. Whenever my ex talked about her ex or one of my friends I felt jealous. Also, whenever she said I love you to another guy (friendly way I guess she said) I felt bad too.

 

Everyone gets jealous. It might not be about who your girlfriend/boyfriend is talking to, and it might be more or less extreme than others feel but everyone feels jealousy about things. It's a natural emotion and you can't do anything to stop it completely.
Some people get jealous very easily over small things and others don't get as jealous over much bigger issues.

Since you say you feel completely comfortable around her, it shouldn't be too much of a problem to talk to her about the situation; It's what I would do in your situation.

 

In all honesty there probably isn't much you can do (about getting jelous). Your just going to have to man up and take it, but one thing you can't do is let it slowly build up inside (anger/hate). The fact of the matter is, your not in a relationship with her so you can't even talk to her about these things, to her your probably just a friend (for now).

You did mention that you talk about "girls" in front of her, so it is a possibility she talks about "guys" in a sense "well if you can talk about girls comfortably around me, then you shouldn't have a problem with me talking about guys" kinda attitude.

If you like this girl and you feel comfortable around her, you should just tell her how you feel. At the moment you get jelous because you feel like she belongs to you and it's not going to help if you keep getting jelous everytime she talks about another guy (Which she has the full right to). Imagine how you feel if she actually did get a boyfriend?

 

You're jealous; simple as.

Jealousy is not attractive in the eyes of the females because it shows a lack of self-esteem and confidence within yourself.

Though, I would strongly recommend you to get out of there while you still can since she's potentially friend-zoned you twice and is only using you as a mutual friend to spew her social web further into the boundaries of her newly founded 'male friends'.

Truth be told, she most likely knows you like her quite a bit and is lavishing in the fact, and of course loving every moment of it.

The truth hurts.

Learn from this situation and use this as a basis to what to avoid when it comes to narcissistic bitches.