I don't normally have to deal with this...

Things have actually gone out pretty good we have a connection. When I'm around her I am consistently trying my best to present myself well by...

- going with the flow
- being aware of the things I am grateful for
- trying to simplify my statements
- boost her confidence
________

and we have an understanding... and this is the reason she likes me.

- not being clingy ie: unreasonable Jealousy

Which her other BF's were.

I think she understands that I don't wanna have sex at this point, but I'm not sure how or if I should even bring that up.

 

It seemed to be more of a non compliment. Pretty neutral reply, if you ask me.

I can understand that it would've been awkward. Next time, just tell her she's more beautiful than the other girl. They love it.

She's telling you because she wants confirmation, so you need to give it to her. Ask her out on a date, to the movies, or some other social event, and see how it goes from there!

 

Yeah it was pretty neutral of a response. Hmm, I will think about mentioning that to her tomorrow if it feels right and maybe other people aren't around.

I might casually ask her to smoke weed with me or something I don't like making it official like a date unless she wants that... im too newb at this hah

thanks for advice

 

You shouldn't of said that IMO.

It's more negative than positive.

"Well that doesn't mean anything... *pause*... you should be happy no matter what."

- What do you mean no matter what, am I that bad?
- I am happy, what are you suggesting?


You didn't say anything majorly wrong IMO, however I don't think it was the best response you could've given.

 

Good point ROFL now that I think about it that way I feel pretty goofy, oh well that's my job. hahaha

 

If I were you, I would have gone for it. Girls don't say things for no reason. She wanted you to compliment you and she wanted that compliment for a reason. I can't tell you why, but I can guess that she wants to see if you find her attractive. Girls are always trying to find out what guys think of them, so that in the case that she finds you cute, then she knows you two could have something going.

In regards to the other friend... make sure he's okay with it before/if you ever go for this girl.

 

Things have actually gone out pretty good. When I'm around her I am consistently trying my best to present myself well by...

- going with the flow
- being aware of the things I am grateful for
- not being clingy ie: unreasonably Jealous
- trying to simplify my statements
- boost her confidence

I think she understands that I don't wanna have sex at this point, but I'm not sure how or if I should even bring that up.