Harrasmet

Edit, fucking lol spelt harassment wrong

before, you read this i'd just like to say that i just want your opinion about the matter.

So i know of this girl, she lives along way away from me and we've been good friends for about 2-3 years, and she was telling me last night about some guy who is 18 (shes 16) is harrasing her saying that she should dump her boyfriend and go out with him and if she doesnt hell pretty much /b/ her information, i doubt she knows about that side of things but from what she told me i expect thats what he'd try and get like a personal army lol :L

But my question is, why is someone being like that i mean yeah sure, ive liked a girl before whos in a relationship but when i found out she was in a relationship i didnt persue her but this kid seems to :/

So yeah, TL;DR Why would a guy harrass a girl and then if she refuses to be with him get all his mates/try to get a personal army to like abuse her lol, like he called her at 1am today man.

Honestly think the kid has something wrong with him as he's 18 and not some lovesick 12 year old :/ sorry about the layout/consistancy of the thread im tired and i just wanted some opinions, i may tidy it up in the morning.

 

She could always call the authorities on him, and try for a restraining order, which will get him in trouble if he dares to violate it. She could tell him that honestly she isn't comfortable talking to him, or him attempting to talk to her, and she'd appreciate it, if he left her alone. As for the /b/ threats, they'll probably go nowhere. He might post her information on /b/, and they'll simply dismiss it with "We're not your personal army OP."

 

Their pretty low. I'd get the cops involved man.

 

That guy obviously has nothing else to do. If he seriously posts her information on /b/, just post his under a stalker paedophile and he will get owned . The best way to deal with it is by getting a bunch of people together and kindly telling him to fuck off because getting the cops involved will just escalate it.

 

I don't understand those people to be honest, I know people who are so creepy they like beg girls, literally beg them to go out with them or kiss them or have sex with them. I'm like, what the fuck?!?! Dude, you wanna know what you do? You belittle him, he's already insecure enough, try and get information on him, threaten him back. Sounds shitty but it'll work, if he follows through, so should you. The guy probably has a small dick, like one of those micro penises, creeps always have micro penises >.<"

 

It'd be best for her to just contact the Police, He'll be issued with some kind of court restraint order which'll if he breaks, he'll be arrested.

 

You can't force someone to like you; he obviously doesn't understand that concept, and as for /b/... I doubt giving her personal info would do any harm, as said earlier the people there wouldn't care much about someone random.

If it gets any worse tell her to contact the proper authorities, but for now just tell her to stay away/ignore him.

 

She's sorted the situation out her dad spoke with his parents and what not, thanks for the replies, im a guy myself lol :love: I just wondered why someone would persue a girl like that, yeah she doesn't like you, get over it and move on :/ lol anyways thanks for the input.

 

We're always here to help, glad the situation was sorted out neatly

 

Glad to hear she and you got it sorted out.