Girl problems

Ok, so I started dating this girl 3 months ago. I could tell from the very start that she was pretty shy, but it wasn't a problem. We eventually started dating and stuff. She never really texts me/calls me, and I asked why. Her answer was, " I don't like to text," so I was just like oh okay. Well about a week or two into the relationship we never really seen each other, and I ask why. Her response is, there is nothing to do. But yet she can hang out with her girl-friends? She later says that she is not fully comfortable around me, which is fine. Well eventually about a week later I dump her because I was tired of this barely texting, seeing her for 30 minutes once a week stuff. She begs for me back, and says she will see me more. Another week passes, she rides over for about 20 minutes and we just sit in my front yard and talk about dumb shit. I ask her if she wants to go out to eat, and she says, "I'm not comfortable enough to eat around you yet," so I am like, wow. She never seems to wanna do anything, but yet she hangs out with her friends ALL weekend long. I always call her, yet she never answers, and I text her and ask why, and she will give me some BS excuse, so then I ask, why can't you call back now? Then she will say something like, 'ughhhhh.' This is pretty annoying, and was wondering your thoughts about it. What would you do in this situation?

 

Try the personal support section, HERE

 

I tried. It won't let me post. It says i have Unsufficient privileges

 

Try pm'ing a mod or admin. I'm not sure, but I don't think there's any special requirements to post in the PS section..

 

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I suppose I'll attempt to answer even if its in the wrong section.

I would basically say that I am assuming you guys are both between like 14-16 and you are her first boyfriend. It is a huge pain in the ass, but girls are very emotinally self-conscious at first. You need to be patient with her. Maybe she is just afraid you will think she is weird when you get to know her.

sorry don't have time for a full reply, pm me i can help more.

 

Way to help OP...

ON : You should dump her, Not comfortable to eat around you? What? What the hell? You know what to do man, If you're annoyed and stuffs, Move forward or try to fix it.

 

Give her some space, take it slow. she will come round, just give her time, im sure it'll be worth the wait.

Some girls are just abit shy, she sounds like she really does like you in the fact that she begged for you back and tbh theres no need to rush things imo.

 

Tell her that you like her for who she is, let her know she can be herself and not have to "put on a mask".
Good luck

 

Moved to personal support.

 

I'm going to be straight up with you dude, and tell you if you guys dated for 2-3 weeks, and she's still not even comfortable enough to EAT around you, then there's seriously something wrong going on here. Sounds like to me she doesn't really care about you, and the reason she's dating you blows my mind. You should probably just dump her and find a girl who is comfortable around you...