Friend Zone?

Basically by the title of this thread you get what my situation is. I'm in LOVE with this girl. This is the same girl I made a topic about approximately a month ago. At that time I was kind of getting reacquainted with her. We have known each other almost our entire lives, I'm almost a year older than she is, I'm almost 18 and she is just turning 17. We were never really "friends" when we were younger, it was my aunt and her mom that were really close friends up until a few years ago. I talked to her last year starting off really slow than picking up the pace really quickly, I liked her than, I told her that, and she told me I was like a cousin to her. I didn't take it that well and we completely 100% stopped talking, not because of her really, it was because of me. I still never stopped thinking about her, I still thought about her a lot.

Anyways, I added her on Facebook at the end of January, she gave me her new cell phone number about a week later, and we again slowly started talking and at first I was scared, I felt like last year she kind of used me a bit, I didn't know if she changed at all since I last talked to her. Well she has changed big time, in a good way too. She went through a lot of bad things, made bad choices, and it has changed her for the better. That made me like her a whole lot more. I care about this girl. I honestly love this girl. I've liked plenty of girls, but not the same way I've ever felt about this one. Like I would do anything in the world for this girl. Anyways she had been wanting to come hang out with me over my house for a really long time during February Vacation, almost the entire week she kept asking me, and I couldn't. One day she couldn't take it no more and she said, you are disappointing me just like every other person in this world does! She told me I'm sick of getting disappointed especially by guys. I said to her like whoa whoa disappointing you is the last thing I'd ever want to do. I care about you. I said I care about you a lot, I do a lot of things for you, because I like you, more than a friend. She was like really? She was surprised I guess about that I guess, and I was like yea... I thought it was kind of obvious, she was like no not really. She told me, she didn't like me like that she wasn't really ready for a relationship right now, that she has a lot of trust issues.

Now this is where your thinking... okay friend zone obviously.. but I'm not so sure... ever since she found out how I felt about her, it is like we have become even closer than ever. Maybe I'm just morphing into like her best friend... I slowed down texting her a lot, but now she texts me more.. She tells me things she is going through, asks me opinions on her, for advice, and she takes my advice over almost anyone else's. We had like a dinner date thing over my house, she said she wants to do that a lot more, she had strep throat that day, and she said I hoped I didn't get it, and I joked saying "Haha naw its not like we shared drinks or I kissed you or anything." She replied back saying, "Hahah I know you wish you did " I replied maybe and she thought that was funny as hell. She knows how much I care about her, and she has showed me signs that she cares a lot about me too, she has asked me why does it seem like I'm getting lazy or giving up on stuff, and that it is really concerning her, she is concerned about me. She told me she wants me to get back on the right track. She says this too me a lot.

The other day she told me that the song, I Roll up by Wiz Khalifa reminded her of us, that it fits us to a T. I had never heard the song before, but its about Wiz or a dude being their for this girl he cares about no matter what, and that ever since they met she has changed for the good, I don't know read the lyrics to the song yourself I'm going to post them in a second, and even will put the link to the video itself, and I just find it wierd to send someone a video of basically what I think a guy and girl becoming more than friends. When I found out she was a Wiz Fan I invited her to his concert I'm going to in May and she said yes.

I don't know I'm very confused on how this girl feels about me, and I don't really want to ask her, cause I refuse to fuck anything up anymore... does it sound like I'm really in the friendship zone to you. If I am I'm just going to accept it and see what happens I'm not going to try and escape it. Alright thanks for reading.

Tldr Version: How can I be 100% sure if I'm in the Friendship Zone? I like this girl but she doesn't like me or thats what she told me like a month ago but it seems things have changed. She said this song fits us perfectly:

Music Video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UhQz-0QVmQ0

Lyrics: http://khalifafans.com/2011/01/28/wiz-khalifa-roll-up-lyrics/

 

She likes you, she likes you a lot. But her walls are still up. She told you herself that she has trust issues. My advice is to take it slow with her. Continue being her good friend, be there for her when she needs you and she'll do the same. Who knows, you may hit it off after the concert. Don't be too pushy about a relationship or she'll most likely shy away from you. I hate to say it, because it's hard as hell, but be patient with her.

So to sum it up, no, you're not stuck in the friendship zone.

 

Isn't the whole point of that song "I can be your best friend, if you will be my homie" ?

But, if you ask me. You think too much. Just do something daring. Nothing to loose anyway

 

I know but thats like saying the song "Best Friend" by 50 cent is actually talking about being Best Friends.

 

Go for it man, make her fall for ya =p

 

Bump.

 

sketchy situation its hard ive been there... usually when girls tell u alot of personal stuff like in my situation its hard for them to date u because ur like ther best friend and someone they can talk to ect

 

sketchy situation its hard ive been there... usually when girls tell u alot of personal stuff like in my situation its hard for them to date u because ur like ther best friend and someone they can talk to ect

 

Trust me, if she likes you, you will know sooner or later. Keep meeting her.

 

friends = backstabbers

 

You obviously have none.