Girlfriend problems.

Well me and my girlfriend have been dating for 1 year and 5 months now. She is 17, I'm 19. Well since i've known her she has always talked to this black guy at her school who texted her all the time. She assured me he was just a friend and she would bet he was gay so i let it go and trusted her. Well while my girlfriend was in the shower yesterday i find her phone, I decide to go through it and happen to find a black dick in the pictures....I asked her about it asap and she says he just sent it to her and she had nothing to do with it. Well this morning she tells me the truth.She talked about sex with him,asked to see his dick,showed him her boobs and even kissed him on the lips at school. She also told me that he had been asking her to come hang at his house which "she never even thoght about" And when i ask her why she did all this she just cries and says idk i love you so much yada yada. The black guy is 19 and I'm 6"5 225lbs and bench about 400 and am probably gonna beat his ass if i get a chance. what should i do?

 

I would personally let it drop a while then when they get closer knock him back into place lol :d

 

Honestly, I would break up with her ASAP.

If she has it in her to talk about having sex with him, exchange dirty pics, and make out with him, then what's to stop her from doing more? From what you said, she doesn't sound sorry. She sounds like she's sorry she got caught, but not sorry she did it.

You deserve better than that. It might be painful to break up with her now, but think about how painful it's gonna be if she cheats on you again in the future, in a worse way.

As for retaliation, I say go for it. It might help you move on, and get some frustration out. I would say watch out though, as black people are more likely to pull a weapon in a fight (not being racist, just my opinion).

 

That is a dishonest relationship and you should get out of it immediately.

IMO

 

Leave it and if anything at all like this happens again end it.