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  1. Just Sayin'

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    I like her, but I've never met her before..

    About 4 months ago, I started talking to someone, she lives about 15 minutes away on the train.
    We spoke a lot and started becoming trustworthy of each other.
    Then about 2 months ago she got a boyfriend, so we stopped talking. A few days ago, they broke up and we're talking again.
    We've been talking about meeting up and we finally are on Saturday, we're both going to the same concert.
    She says she likes me, and I like her.
    I'm really worried that I won't be able to make conversation or something.

    I Just want some basic advice on what to do and stuff. :huh:
     
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    Just start something original, ask her out maybe. I know how you feel, I've had this happen to me before. Honestly, just go for her and try to talk and listen to the concert together. Be friendly, and be patient. Hope it works out. PM me if you need more help man. I'm here for you.
     
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    I like her, but I've never met her before..

    Thanks alot. I'm just scared of it being awkward, that's all. :/
     
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    I like her, but I've never met her before..

    If you're going to concert together then you have conversation ready made for you, just talk about that, if you can't; pretend she is someone else an make conversation like that.

    You can pm me for more help to :)
     
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    I like her, but I've never met her before..

    Yeah, I guess that's true.
    Thanks a lot :)
     
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    I like her, but I've never met her before..

    Right away put your arm around her.
     
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    I like her, but I've never met her before..

    When you first see her go for a hug.
    Talk about what band you're most looking forward to seeing (If there are multiple bands that you like)
    Once you get some small talk going, let it ride and be natural.
    If it goes good ask her if she wants to hang out another time then take it from there (If you want to ask her out)

    Is she bringing friends? And are you as well?
    If so, that could be better or it could be worse.
    Good luck
     
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    I like her, but I've never met her before..

    Just be yourself, don't act like someone you are not. :)

    Random conversation is better that orkward silence.
     
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    common interest is the best thing for conversation
     
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    I like her, but I've never met her before..

    yup, since both of you have a common interest it's going to be easier to start off a conversation! just be comfortable, you have to know that she's as nervous as you and use it to your advantage :)

    she's probably feeling how you feel now. So behave in the way how you want her to behave.
     
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    I like her, but I've never met her before..

    No offence in any way but if she liked you from the start she wouldn't have stopped talking to you for another guy.
     
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    Just relax man, focus your mind on something else, and you'll be good. Think about the concert more than her. This will give you less anxiety and pressure.
     
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    I like her, but I've never met her before..

    I was thinking this, it sounds as though you're just a rebound guy, not trying to dampen your night but yeah.

    I was also thinking that maybe you shouldn't be too straight forward with her about being in a relationship, she did just get out of one and stuff.
     
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    I like her, but I've never met her before..

    well 1st off, uve already been talking to her right? thats conversations in itself. just be urself, its the best advice i can give u. if ur 100% urself around her and shes attracted to that and sticks around then u found urself a good girl my friend
     
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    I like her, but I've never met her before..

    since you're going to the same concert you obviously have the same type of personality. Try starting conversation about that! I bet it leads great places :)
     
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    I like her, but I've never met her before..

    allite heres what you do ;P

    You ask her about herself.

    what kinds of things is she into?

    Just compliment her and keep asking her questions and she will do all of the talking.

    it is not awkward unless you make it awkward
     
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