i need some help

ok so i normally deal with things on my own, but jus recently i realized i need to get some help from some1, but i dont trust that many people that know me because ive been fucked over to many times so i figured id do it in a sorta anonomyss kinda way.

well to start off with, me and Kari have been in a open relationship for about a month but weve known each other for over 2 years and have liked each other for about 1 and a half years. just recently i was with another girl named Savanah on a date when she wanted to use my cell cuze hers was broke, so i said ok. aparently while she was useing my fone, Kari texted me and Savanah acted like me and told her something along the lines of "Hes with me now bitch he dont want u no more he said ur a stupid whore" (this is what Kari told me, Savanah erased the messages from my fone so idk what exactly she said). either way tho now Kari wont talk to me now and its tearing me apart, im barely eating and all i can think about is her. idk what i should do and i dont wana loose her cuze shes an amazing, beautifull, smart, and funny gurl. can some1 please give me some advice on what i should do and please no immature kids posting stupid stuff.

Thank you and sorry if some things arent spelled right, my key board is fucked up right now and some keys arent workin right.

 

She will most likely get over it; If she doesn't, she doesn't deserve your time anyway. You can only wait, because time is the best cure for problems like this. One question, though, is why were you on a date with "Savanah" if you like/love Kari, the other girl?

Good luck, Mate.

~Rejection.

 

I am having the same trouble at the moment with the eating, i recently got back and had sex with my ex girlfriend while she was semi drunk. She doesnt regret it or anything but it just tears me apart the things she said because she told me it was her drinking that made her talk. I have been sitting over the past two days just thinking and not eating anything, i feel sick inside and feel like my life is now going know where. So i will appreciate this topic aswell

 

This is a very tricky situation to be in indeed.
Either one of them could be a liar.
You should get rid of Savanah, for her to answer your texts is very rude and she shouldn't have done that, get rid of her imediatley. With that said you have to now convince Kari to talk again, all you can do here is keep trying, apolgosie profusely and hope for the best bud.

You can imagine how she feels, she has just found out you are cheating on her (I assume you are by the fact you say you were together for a month and you went on a date with another girl) so don't expect her to give in so easily.

Ex's are trouble. The best advice I can give is to TRY and just completely forget your ex, try and avoid her if you can (not completely but avoid her in times when your drunk etc)

 

@rejection
i only went on a date with savanah because kari said that it was alright and that she wouldnt mind, and i feel like an idiot for believing it

@shoop
i dont think its considered cheating cuze she knew i was and i even asked her if it was aite and she said it was. were in a open relationship which i jus realized is probly the worst idea ever. if we ever do get back together imma tell her id rather it be an exclusive relationship cuze this shit gets complicated fast

 

You didn't mention that in your first post, but relationships like that will never work, she probably said she doesn't mind to see if you make the right choice, which you didn't.
But like I said, apologise and hope for the best.

 

most of the time women will say shit just to test you out, if they say its ok its obviously not. not sure how old you are but surprise her (Kari) some how get some flowers a card explaining what went down, tell her how she makes you feel etc.. lol show her this thread but seriously BTW who started this open relationship? but if she continues to shove you away them you most likely miss your shot at this time, wait a few months or years, until she forgives you

 

yea haha show her this thread
imma jus leave her alone for a couple of days, her birthday is thursday so imma go to her house thursday afternoon with a present and tell her how i feel and if she doesnt wana hear it then oh well i tryed but i hope she will have had time to think about it and understand im jus a stupid dude

 

You've sorted it out right there.
In my opinion that's the best thing you can do bud.