A stoners problem

Hey there so i smoke weed (durrrrr) and none of my relatives know that.. recently my sis saw me smoke a joint and started crying in the middle of a crowd of people. should i give it up?
I personally wouldnt want to because it doesnt harm me that much, as my grades are getting better, and i workout 7 times a week, so health and condition arent a problem neither.
but i dont want my sister to see it ever again, as i cant take it when she cries, id be totally wrecked emotionally.
please dont quote me shit from the law, i dont care.

 

Why don't you just explain it to her? She's just not use to it, once she is she will not have a problem with it.

 

I already did man, but shes like i dont want yuo to be like those filthy druggies ): shes 15 goddamn and acts so fucking hard on it

 

I would never recommend anyone to do drugs, I don't mind weed, I've done it myself in the past and now when I look back I realise what an idiot I was for doing it. All the drug is, is money going down the drain and your family will judge you. If I got caught by my dad back in the day I would have got the crap kicked out of me. Anyway... Long story short, drugs are bad mmm kay.

 

Respect to u but im not thinking of giving up that fast lol but thanks

and yes my parents would kick my ass too, since im in a muslim family wich are strict against any drug, from alkohol to cigarettes, nothing goes.

Feel my pain? Any Stoners got some tipps?

 

Why the hell was she crying? How old is she? What nonsense has been drilled into her head that caused her to cry?

Honestly, I would sit down with her and talk about it. Ask her why she was upset, ask her what makes her feel that way. Then explain that it's nothing bad and that it's not a big deal and whatever else you think will put her at ease.. Then tell her to grow up. There's no reason to cry over something that doesn't even concern you.

 

So many people get "f*****" up by drugs, their lives ruined.

If you keep up smoking weed, then your body will become addicted to it, or maybe it already has. You don't know how powerful addiction is, even if you think you can handle it, it can ruin your life.

Drugs is a powerful thing, watch the film "Requiem for a dream" if you want to understand it better.

She was upset, because she didn't want you to smoke weed.

Smoking weed = unhappy parents, unhappy sister, and you won't be the same person, you may be unhappier, more angry etc. You need to try stop smoking weed for YOU and YOUR sister. It might feel good but it's an illusion, it doesn't help you, or your family. It's a fool's paradise.

It's not too late, stop now, or two months later if you don't stop, you will wish you did.

 

You know NOTHING at all about drugs, especially weed. Lol Requiem for a Dream isn't about weed either, so what are you even talking about? Your body won't become addicted to weed. I'm as big of a pothead as one can get and I often take tolerance breaks. Quitting smoking is not a problem at all. Please do some research before you post.

As far as your sister goes, it's nothing to worry about. She's only 15 and she obviously doesn't see things realistically. Just tell her you won't do it to make her happy and then make sure you never do it in front of her again. Shouldn't be hard to do. Just be careful when you're smoking. There is no reason that anyone in your family needs to find out.

 

I use to hit a bowl about every other night. The thing that got me to quit was my child. I quit when I was a senior for track, and as soon as track was over I started right back. The thing is you must have good discipline to actually quit, as well as the desire to quit.

 

I've never done drugs before, so I can't see how I'll be very helpful telling you to quit or whatever.

However, I can say that, as other have posted before, talk to her about it. The fact that you care so much about her means that she cares the same amount, if not more, about you. If she looks up to you, seeing you do drugs when she has never done them herself can be a lot to handle at one time. Talking to her at the very least will give her a better understanding of the situation.

Obviously, quitting would probably be the best thing overall, but I can understand why you don't want to. Talk to her and see where it goes. Post afterwards and say how the conversation went if you do decide to talk with her?

 

Honestly it's up to you and your ethics. If you don't want to hide things from your sister/family I suggest you quit smoking weed unless you can't live without it or things might come and bite you in the ass in years to come.

 

Do some research and explain to her that it's not as bad as people make it out to be.

To the poster who said it's addicting, you know absolutely nothing on the subject and shouldn't post anything further on it.

Weeds isn't addicting like meth or coke. Its type of addiction would be compared to that of one who's addicted to chocolate or ice cream. They eat it because they like the way it tastes, not because theres something in it thats addicting. Well thats how it is with weed, people do it because it makes them feel good, not because it's addicting. Theres nothing in it that is physically addicting that would make one need it. (Like meth, coke etc)


I hate how television has brainwashed people into thinking it's such a horrible thing. Hundreds of thousands die every year from cigs and alcohol, yet they're legal.(I'm not against the fact they're legal I'm just giving an example.) You never hear about a guy smoking a joint and then proceeding to beat his wife...

Just explain to her that it isn't as bad as it's made out to be. It's pretty sad people bash weed especially when they take over the counter prescriptions.. which 99% of the time are more dangerous than weed is.

If only people would do a little research.

Good luck man, try to explain it to her. A little research is all it takes. If you need any advice on how to tell her feel free to PM me, I know a decent amount on the subject.

I've already ran wayyy off subject and I know I could've just told you to explain it to her, but I felt the need to go in depth. I could say alot more, but I wont.

Again, goodluck.


Edit: Now if it's getting between you and being productive in any way or form thats another story. As long as you're still getting done what needs to be done then I don't see a problem with it.

 

I have seen this happen to many times
a bunch of young lads having a get together, a few laughs and a few joints, No harm done right ?
What people don't realize is the drug itself is not only harming your own health body & mind, but worst of all it will harm the closest ones to you.
I am no angel, i used to smoke it when i was a teen with my friends, but to cut a long story short, most of them not all of them just some, have turned out to become Alcaholics heavy users of cocaine mdma pills and other drugs which they now rely on daily.

People say it is not addictive, To some people it may not others it may be, but the more you abuse it the more you need to take to get the ''HIGH'' feeling from the drug.

I wont list all the side affects this causes as you more than likely know what they are all, I can not tell you what you should and should not do i can only offer advice.

Ask yourself the following question.

. Is it worth taking this to see my sister like that?
. Am i spending most of my allowance on it ?
. When i have lost the high feeling was it worth the $20 for one hour rush ?
. Is my body depending on this substance ?
. When the High fades off do i find myself depressed feeling down or any mood swings ?

Never let a drug control you! Always be in control of the drug

Good luck

 

Don't give advice when you don't know what you're talking about.. ¬_¬ Your body can't get addicted to weed. Just your mind.

 

sounds much alike MDMA is, I would suggest actually talking to your sister and getting the media crap out of her head

 

i agree +1

 

Smoked weed from 15 - 19 pretty much everyday sometimes serveral times in the end and then got a job where i get drug tested an quit cold turkey.

Thing is i personally smoked by myself rarely and was always more of a social thing It was always fun smoking with your mates we just finished work/skool and would all meet up smoke an go do fun shit like go karts or burn shit lol it was hell fun, I probably had 5 joints max where i was board an just either got ripped an played game or watched TV. If your at a stage where you are smoking by urself then its semi-serious. I have seen mates fry up from smoking only after 6 months become downies, but then i know of others that have smoked there whole lives and still go moto riding and stuff like that an seem completely unaffected.

The thing with your sister is hard but man she will get used to it, you should really try your hardest to limit her exposure to it, otherwise she is either going to think its all good to smoke or hopefully the complete opposite.

But that getting addicted shit is all BS, you may get USED to the feeling of being stoned all the time but deadset i have quit and didnt even look back.

I can confirm it is definatly a gateway drug, as when i was 15 i was so against pills an speed, but by the time i was 17 i was bending on popping mings and racking all the gas i could get my hands on. That shit also stopped.

Have fun try shit out, dont become dependent on it. Smoke weed to have fun not live, if your life is starting to revolve around finding a pair of scissors to cut your neighbors hose then i suggest you find urself a new hobbie.

Im not telling you what to do with your life coz in the end your another perosn an you can make your own decisions based on your own circumstances, and to be honest if i didnt get this job i would still be smoking with the boys every day lol

 

Iarian- you're an ignorant fuck.

 

Thanks guys, and kale_cruxis your dumb, if i were ignorant would i ask for help on the personal support forums?

 

THIS.

OT: Talk to your sister again, explain to her the differences between weed and other drugs, maybe she is just ignorant.